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What's the meanest thing you ever said/did to your boyfriend / girlfriend that you felt bad about later?
When someone makes you really mad, what do you do to calm down? What helps you get over it?
How come parents don't understand relationships today?? wtf
When someone makes you really mad, what do you do to calm down? What helps you get over it?
How come parents don't understand relationships today?? wtf
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whoops.
it was one of those silly games where you see how hard you can hit the other person's hand - but she moved it away
In a really bitter fight, i told him he was a failure in everything
Cleaning. I kind of like getting furious as then my room/kitchen/bathroom ends up spotless
Told another ex to go and have an abortion in the heat of the moment. Nice lad am I.
I know I said something really horrible to an ex once when I was hammered and I woke up the next morning (cos I passed out) and he drove off home even though he was drunk because he was so mad at what I had said.
If someones really wound me up it takes quite a lot but I will have to literally leave the room. The best way I calm down is having a mate with me or something talking to me and that or just going for a walk.
I rarely get fully wound up when I'm sober though and if I do I don't let it show until I'm alone or just with a mate.
Time calms me down, then guilt if i got too angry. But getting over things takes me a long time. Usually things stay in the back of my mind for a very long time, especially if i am in contact with the person involved in the argument.
Parents? Well, mine seem to understand relationships alright.
hmmm maybe its my pigheadedness but I dont think i've ever been that mean. I dont tend to to do insults I use sarcastic retalliations (sp). Not really into personal jibes like my ex was.
He says hes regrets it now but he said alot of mean stuff to me, including 'go drown in your own sick you bulimic bitch' (yes i struggle with bulimia).
Then it was just the usual stuff like your rubbish in bed, fat etc.
Forgiven him now since were back together :eek2:
Not my place to say really , but I wouldnt be able to forgive that :no: , sorry. He doesn't sound too nice, but completely up to you ..
I cant remeber saying mean things to my exes because I'm not one for fighting/put downs.
My ex was an utter shit towards me. Any man that says they wont have sex with someone because there too fat deserves to have their balls chopped off.
I just stay out of the person way if they've pissed me off.
I know on paper he sounds an evil bastard but I know I drove him to it.
See it doesnt bother me know but everytime I get drunk (last night) we have the whole discussion again where I tell him everytime he touches me, I think hes thinking, I'm fat.
Were both just clinging onto the remains of a relationship here...:(
You know what? I can't think of anything... I can be very hot and cold and sarcastic, but I can't remember ever intentionally hurting a partner. I just don't have it in my nature (so far as I'm aware).
When someone makes you really mad, what do you do to calm down? What helps you get over it?
I tend to snap, but less so these days. Anger doesn't cange what happened, revenge only makes it worse. If somebody's shitty to you they're probably feeling shitty themselves and shitty feelings are their concern, not mine.
I've been known in the past to spit at people, I've thrown punches, threw somebody through a double door, I've said some horrible things and made people cry... But I never felt good about it after. I guess I learnt pretty well to control my temper.
My dyspraxia sometimes makes it hard for me to comunicate feelings and my difficulties make it hard sometimes to do things most other people can do. To cope wit anger and/or frustation I stop and remind myself how aggression and frustration can be destructive unless used to build something from passion.
How come parents don't understand relationships today??
What do you mean?