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What am I doing wrong?
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Dear All,
Hello. I am Kez, in my 30's and a professional, refined gentleman.
The problem I have is as follows: I really need help in understanding women as although I am a decent professional chap, I seem to be getting the run around from women. I have the confidence in asking women out and some of them will give me there number. I go out with them and when it finally comes to the crunch they say they just wanna be friends! I've had this many times.It's like trying to download a 1GB file and when you downloaded 999MB the damn thing stops and says you need more sources and you never find those sources so eventually have to abandon the download !! BTW I am not ugly, I'm actually quite handsome.
Please help........ .
Kindest regards,
Kez
Hello. I am Kez, in my 30's and a professional, refined gentleman.
The problem I have is as follows: I really need help in understanding women as although I am a decent professional chap, I seem to be getting the run around from women. I have the confidence in asking women out and some of them will give me there number. I go out with them and when it finally comes to the crunch they say they just wanna be friends! I've had this many times.It's like trying to download a 1GB file and when you downloaded 999MB the damn thing stops and says you need more sources and you never find those sources so eventually have to abandon the download !! BTW I am not ugly, I'm actually quite handsome.
Please help........ .
Kindest regards,
Kez
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is it because you are a nerd?
sorry I am only joking, girls are bitches but you will find the right one soon
LOL. Now, now...
Kez, understanding women is probably the #1 desire of all Men, and probably us women too :yes:
What kind of girls are you meeting, and where? If you tend to meet girls at a club who are drunk (and maybe just looking for a ONS), it's not going to end in lasting love (well, not likely to anyway).
Have you thought about changing the place you go to 'pull' - what about going somewhere more directed to your interests (like a sports club or something). At least you'll start on the same level and might find more to talk about that will lead you past the phone number stage.
The other thing might be, maybe they find you a really nice person and don't want to risk a potential friendship by having a fling or whatever. Maye they do see you as BF material but want to get to know you better first. Have you actually been 'friends' with someone you like, and see what develops? I'm sort of talking from experience from the other side of the fence - I have a couple of times really, really fancied someone on a purely physical level, but then when I actually get to know them, I start seeing them as a friend because we get on so well....
Otherwise without knowing more about you and the types of girl you're attracting I guess its hard to tell. More dets?
-Jess-
lol
For god's sake., stop using text talk. It's against the rules. It's not cool, its not cute - it's f*cking irritating!!!
Well, if you continue to breakk the rules ... and use derogatory terms like 'batty boy' .. I suspect that you are the one with the problem.
P.S- Graffiti- please start writing properly. Not liking the way you type does not make us losers or arse holes, we just have some respect for the English language and like to see it used properly. You'll get a much better response to your posts if you think a little bit about your use of words and spelling.