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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
lately things havent been great between us. anyway yesturday i red one of his bebo messages yea i no i shudnt have but it had a give away title. yes i was in the wrong, but he sed he had a secret to tell this girl and hed tell her once sh turned 17 shes not even 16 yet, she finaly got it out of him and it sed i like ya and fink ur hot! hes denied it. basically i wana ask you guys if you found this on ur bf/gfs messages how would you feel and react?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd probably feel a little gutted and not good enough but I doubt I would care too much because if I was in your position it doesn't seem like much of a serious relationship just one with two young people involved where love doesn't come into play.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol Yeah.... "I think you're hot!" isn't exactly a heart breaking declaration of love really is it?
    I've told girls I think they're hot while I've been in relationships before... it didn't mean anything and it didn't mean that I wanted anything to do with them, just that I think they're hot, simple as that! lol Nothing wrong with giving a pretty girl a confidence boost once in a while.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    for staters who the hell are you 2 say love doesnt come into play, we bin together for 2 years so dnt give me that shit!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    superchick45 wrote: »
    for staters who the hell are you 2 say love doesnt come into play, we bin together for 2 years so dnt give me that shit!

    Ok, I will take back love and replace it with maturity after that comment.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A comment like, "I think you're hot" wouldn't really faze me, but it depends on the individual I suppose. What would concern me more would be me going through his private things or the fact that my boyfriend is lying to my face.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds like you're feeling a bit delicate right now. I agree with squeal, maturity comes into it if you feel the need to snoop, there doesn't seem to be much trust or respect between the two of you
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    superchick45 wrote: »
    for staters who the hell are you 2 say love doesnt come into play, we bin together for 2 years so dnt give me that shit!

    Take a chill pill darlin'! Jeez!

    If you really love eachother then prehaps you should trust eachother?
    As I said in my earlier post, I've told girls that they're hot while I've been in relationships before... it never meant that I was going to cheat on my girlfriend or anything.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    plus if he said it on an open website like bebo its hardly like he was hiding it from you. Unless of course your checking his private messages without asking his permission.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wyetry wrote: »
    Unless of course your checking his private messages without asking his permission.....

    Which wouldn't be very trusting.... although I know how tempting it can be...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    superchick45 wrote: »
    we bin together for 2 years so dnt give me that shit!

    You'd of done better spending those two years on course of basic English and grammar. Innit.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok well he clearly did send her that message so his blatant 'i didn't do it' would fuck me off most, not what he actually said.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    RubberSkin wrote: »
    You'd of done better spending those two years on course of basic English and grammar. Innit.

    Ohh I thought that too but didn't want to distress the poor girl in her hour of need. Maybe thats why we are all so confused as I'm not entirely sure what she is going on about............
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wyetry wrote: »
    Ohh I thought that too but didn't want to distress the poor girl in her hour of need. Maybe thats why we are all so confused as I'm not entirely sure what she is going on about............

    That's also why I thought she was about 12, however the profile says 19 :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    squeal wrote: »
    That's also why I thought she was about 12, however the profile says 19 :confused:

    I got that idea more from the fact that they use and give a shit about bebo...

    *quickly deletes unused bebo account*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    squeal wrote: »
    Ok, I will take back love and replace it with maturity after that comment.
    Haha!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Judging by this thread of Miss 45's, there are issues to be addressed on both parties.
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