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I know this thread has been done like a million times, but what the fuck do you class as cheating?
There was this girl who I met in Kavos who was all over me on the dancefloor, rubbing my cock, kissing my neck, even letting me finger her while we were dancing (haha good times), but when I try to kiss her or suggested going back to my apartment or the beach for some you know what, she was like "I'd love to but I won't cheat on my boyfriend." How is kissing cheating when letting a guy finger you and rubbing his cock e.t.c is not? She classed that as only a bit of fun.
Lol Strange girl... fit though.
Also, what's your opinion of cheating on holidays like that? I saw so many girls cheat out there, even the DJ's were giving shout outs to all the girls with boyfriends, telling them to remember that "what happens in Kavos, stays in Kavos, so have a good time." I don't know what I think about it, morally I know it's wrong but temptation does get the better of people.
There was this girl who I met in Kavos who was all over me on the dancefloor, rubbing my cock, kissing my neck, even letting me finger her while we were dancing (haha good times), but when I try to kiss her or suggested going back to my apartment or the beach for some you know what, she was like "I'd love to but I won't cheat on my boyfriend." How is kissing cheating when letting a guy finger you and rubbing his cock e.t.c is not? She classed that as only a bit of fun.
Lol Strange girl... fit though.
Also, what's your opinion of cheating on holidays like that? I saw so many girls cheat out there, even the DJ's were giving shout outs to all the girls with boyfriends, telling them to remember that "what happens in Kavos, stays in Kavos, so have a good time." I don't know what I think about it, morally I know it's wrong but temptation does get the better of people.
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I also dont think many people sit down with their partner and write down a list of what they agree is accetable and what is not!
Personally I think it probably depends on loads of factors - what your relationship is like, who the OTHER person is (maybe shouldnt matter but in reality probably does), how many times the cheating has happened. I guess id judge each situation by itself.
imo any messing around like that i'd class as cheating, on holiday or not.
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You're so right I know SO many girls/lads that have been on holiday and cheated on their other halves. When i went to Tenerife last year with my friend (whos been with her boyfriend 3 years) she cheated on him 3 times! I don't know what it is about being on holiday its like because its only a bit of fun (unlikely to turn into anything serious because you'll probably not see them again/keep in touch) and the fact that you're in another country so nobody will find out. I've never had been in a relationship when i've gone on a girly holiday so i dont know myself.
I have got off with someone while being on holiday tho and then found out he was the stag of a stag do...when i get married my other half is definitely not going abroad for the stag party! haha. pill ed i'd definitely class what that girl did with you as cheating, shes just kidding herself that shes not cheating on him.
My thoughts exactly, which is why it frustrates me that she didn't sleep with me. lol
Agreed.
If I was in a relationship and went on holiday (for starters I probably wouldn't go on a holiday like that anyway if I wasn't single), then I wouldn't want to cheat and I would be distraught if she cheated on me.
I have cheated a couple of times before but no one's perfect and I've been cheated on many times aswell.
However, being the other person is a different matter...espescially if you've been fucked over in the past yourself and have been single and sexless for long enough to not give a shit anymore. If it was in england with a girl who I knew and was going to see again, then my morals would come into play... but on a holiday like this, how many of you would give a fuck about being the other guy/girl?
And there's the rule of "If in doubt, don't."
I dunno cheating hmm anything physical, although yeah i dunno. As for the holidays well it's a given that all you do on them is get drunk and fucked so yeah fine if your single but probably not so good if your already in a relationship.
I know!
Like you'd give a shit :razz:
Oh and Icey, yeah I reckon I could have done it but her friends kept butting in and having a go at me so in the end I just walked her back and left it at that.
Exactly! When my mate was single we used to go out all the time on the understanding that she'd pull and i'd entertain his mates. Amount of times i've pulled an ugly kiddy cos his mate was fit is like way too many to count.
I don't understand why girls in relationships go on holidays like that to those kind of places.
My guess would be the attention. That and just some girls enjoy gettin a bloke all interested and then tellin them to fuck off.
What kind of sick person would do that to a man?!
It doesn't matter though, I was a bit more lucky with another girl that I met at a pool party.
Or a woman.
Either way, no means no innit.
Plenty more fish in the sea.
i never thought of it before, but that's EXACTLY how i'd define cheating. different for every couple, probably, but there's always boundaries you just don't cross.