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I Dont Know Where I Am??
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Ok,
Me and the missus have took a break as i currently posted about, she needed time to forgive me about a certain thing because i was a absolutely idiot, then we said it would be for 2 weeks, now the thing is that we havent seen each other for a week or so now and at the start she only wanted one txt a day from each other and that was to ask how we are both doing, now she reckons she is so stressed out and she has come out in a rash and stuff, and that i cant leave her alone, its hard to leave someone alone who u been with everyday for the last year and a half. I am finding it so hard to leave her alone, so i sent her flowers, she was so fucking ungreatful about them i am not conceiving to give up. She rang me today saying that she cant handle this and im not helping to give her space and we shouldnt txt now,
now the thing is that its so hard not to txt its unreal, shes got all the power and im just hanging on and its doing my head in. How come she aint finding this as hard as me and why dont she put kisses or love you on the end of her txts, she keeps saying how she needs her space, its driving me insane and its just now starting to make me unwell aswell.
Me and the missus have took a break as i currently posted about, she needed time to forgive me about a certain thing because i was a absolutely idiot, then we said it would be for 2 weeks, now the thing is that we havent seen each other for a week or so now and at the start she only wanted one txt a day from each other and that was to ask how we are both doing, now she reckons she is so stressed out and she has come out in a rash and stuff, and that i cant leave her alone, its hard to leave someone alone who u been with everyday for the last year and a half. I am finding it so hard to leave her alone, so i sent her flowers, she was so fucking ungreatful about them i am not conceiving to give up. She rang me today saying that she cant handle this and im not helping to give her space and we shouldnt txt now,
now the thing is that its so hard not to txt its unreal, shes got all the power and im just hanging on and its doing my head in. How come she aint finding this as hard as me and why dont she put kisses or love you on the end of her txts, she keeps saying how she needs her space, its driving me insane and its just now starting to make me unwell aswell.
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When you're in the mindset of a relationship its easy to make days feel like years but seriously, a couple of weeks is nothing...just turn the phone off, catch up with some mates and enjoy a bit a 'you' time.
All the signs are there. If I was you I'd move on...
she says that she is just stressed out, she dont want to lose me and she loves me and misses me. She just wants time on her own now and to be able to forgive the terrible thing i said and did. She says to let me leave her too it now,
Icey, im gonna do exactly wat you said and to switch the phone off and to catch up with some friends then that will let her have that time she so needs, she said she dont want to split up but im smothering her and to leave her to herself for a bit.
I'm afraid I have to go with this opinion on this.
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Honestly hun i think icey is right, she needs time for her and you need some you time yourself.
Hope it all works out for you
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kellie, yeah your right i love this girl, love gets banded around easily but i really do love her, she makes my life so complete, i done the messing around and now i just want to settle down with this beautiful lady
Its only one relationship no doubt you will have plenty more throughout your life & look at it this way - at least now you can do all the stuff you couldnt do before! It takes some getting used to but after a month or two you'll be alright again just stick it out!