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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Ive tried anal before it wasnt as ba as i expected but i didnt really enjoy it much anybody got ny tips on how to make it better or more enjoyable?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe lots of lube and a buttplug to try and make things a bit less tight.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A butt plug might be a bit extreme if she's never had anal before!! :shocking:

    How about just taking it nice and slow, and only doing it when you feel reeeally comfortable about it?

    ETA: Oops! Have just read she has had it before...still...if you're feeling a bit unsure about it, OP, a butt plug might be a bit extreme for you! Depends what you feel comfortable with though...:)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not really that extreme, you can get small slim ones. smaller than a cock as well.

    Doc Johnson Super Slim Butt Plug Small:
    Absolutely perfect if you're looking to discover the joys of anal sex for the first time, our smallest butt plug is gently rounded at the tip, super smooth and really flexible. Load up on the lube and prepare for fun!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm...interesting...I did not know that....:chin:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol: @ suggesting a butt plug for someone who didnt find anal that enjoyable :lol: thats mean.

    My suggestion is just stick to the things you DO find enjoyable.
    Anal isnt for everyone.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know but my boyfriend likes it so i dont mind doin it just wondered if theres something i could try to make it more enjoyable for me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Id still suggest not pressuring yourself into doing something you dont enjoy just for his sake.
    I think its one of those things that if you dont like, then just wait and see if you start liking it or start fancying it one day.
    Theres no one thing that feels great. It can be down to your mood or anything. Sometimes its my very favourite thing, and other times I really dont like it. Nothing to do with any technique. Thats ust the way the cookie crumbles.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OP: by "not enjoying it", do you mean that you actually hated it, or that it didn't really do anything for you? 'Cause I'm the latter, really. I'm not really fussed if we do it or not, but it means he gets something when I'm on my period :p. Hmmm :chin:.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote: »
    OP: by "not enjoying it", do you mean that you actually hated it, or that it didn't really do anything for you? 'Cause I'm the latter, really. I'm not really fussed if we do it or not, but it means he gets something when I'm on my period :p. Hmmm :chin:.

    when the river's red take the dirttrack :lol:


    yeh i belive there are REALLY thin buttplugs out there, that are thinner than a cok bout same as afinger
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wheresmyplacebo wrote: »
    when the river's red take the dirttrack :lol:


    yeh i belive there are REALLY thin buttplugs out there, that are thinner than a cok bout same as afinger

    how would that be enjoyable??

    At least with anal sex youve got the mental stimulation going on as well.
    A small butt plug used in a non-sexual context isnt going to prepare you any more than going for a big poo. Its just gonna feel weird.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote: »
    OP: by "not enjoying it", do you mean that you actually hated it, or that it didn't really do anything for you? 'Cause I'm the latter, really. I'm not really fussed if we do it or not, but it means he gets something when I'm on my period :p. Hmmm :chin:.

    Lol i didnt hate it no just didnt do anything for me and my bf trys get me do it more when im on my period but i find it worse then
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    luvmeright wrote: »
    Lol i didnt hate it no just didnt do anything for me and my bf trys get me do it more when im on my period but i find it worse then

    Worse as in painful?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No as in not enjoyin it cus i still think its messy when u have ur period
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh...I see....well are there other things you could do instead that you both enjoy, when it's your period, or when he wants anal sex??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why dont you just say no then if you dont like it.
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