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Another Emotional F**K wit!
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Just a rant really......I was seeing someone up until 2 weeks ago....It was a f**K buddy relationship....his choice actually, I always wanted more but knew he wouldn't give me more so I finished it!
The only way to get rid of him was by telling a little white lie that I was 'dating' someone and it looked like it was going to be permenent so told him I couldn't 'see' him anymore!
He was acting all cool etc but today I start getting messages saying "I hope he treats you well- better than I did"
And basically saying how he is such a knob and how he wanted to date me.
The thing is, I know for a fact that If I turn round and become avaliable, He will run a mile!
What is it with these people??
(He has really got under my skin cause I do like him!) :grump:
The only way to get rid of him was by telling a little white lie that I was 'dating' someone and it looked like it was going to be permenent so told him I couldn't 'see' him anymore!
He was acting all cool etc but today I start getting messages saying "I hope he treats you well- better than I did"
And basically saying how he is such a knob and how he wanted to date me.
The thing is, I know for a fact that If I turn round and become avaliable, He will run a mile!
What is it with these people??
(He has really got under my skin cause I do like him!) :grump:
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I was like that with a lad I was seeing, unfortunately you need to steer well clear of those lads - they're not at all boyfriend material!
You'll find one soon enough, and you'll have a gay old time with them. Just unfortunate you need to go through the shit blokes until you get one!
When someone is available at times you just want a little flirt here and to enjoy being single at the same time. However now you are taken, he can't have that, maybe he's kinda wishing he picked you up while he had the chance.
I know :banghead:
I always have a little voice in my head saying "What if...." etc but I know I would regret it if I went back.....need to be strong! The amount of times I have thought "What if they have changed" and they never do! Really like him, this is going to be hard! :banghead: :grump:
This is why I am having a weekness! :mad: I am thinking maybe he has come to his senses! But I know he hasn't...he is probably missing the sex! :grump:
He would have to get down on his hands and knees begging if he wants to ever take me out! God he makes me fume! And the guy is intelligent...he's a police officer which turns me on even more!
Ah, i didn't realise you was giving him that
He is not your typical heartbreaker...I don't know, there is just something about him I really like (probably the uniform....haha). I am quite scared of commitment too so I think we are alike in that sense....a bad bad combination :no:
This is exactly what we do....tease eachother, get on and then back off, round and round and bloody round!
I need to stay away from him really but don't know if I have the strength.....I mean when I get a 'lonely moment' it's going to be tough :nervous: