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Have any of you told your parents which drugs you use ? and if so how did they react ? they don't even know i smoke weed although they must suspect ! but pills etc ?????? and how have they reacted when they have found out elsewhere ? and lastly just for comical value, have you ever been totally fucked and confronted with your parents ? how did you get out of it ?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My parents found weed in my room. My mother told me I was lucky to be alive and I just laughed at her(didn't help situation!) <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">.
    The problem with parents is that they're not educated bout drugs...if they were properly educated, I doubt they'd give a damn if i did weed or not.
    Anyways, my dad brought me to da cops, I bluffed my way through it so it was grand.
    But I don't have their trust, and a parents trust is essential to be able to live a healthy life! I mean, they don't really let me out to clubs or anything like that any more cos they say they can't trust me. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ah good idea for a thread. Well, my parents didn't need any more proof that I smoked weed, cos once quite recently, i had a few of my mates round one night for a smoke and i was fuckin wrecked. As they were leaving they said: "Now Bart, rememeber and clean up the mix dish and bong etc." I said yeh, then KO ed. I woke up at 7am, no one was up yet, but i just went right up to my bed! My dad gets up around 7 to check his emails before he goes to work! The next night as I was telling my parents I was away out, my dad shouted as I was leaving (jokingly) "Will you be needing your bong tonight then?" I and I just like, "Oops!" because it just occured to me that I didn't clean everything up!

    A Few months ago, the night I got back from Ibiza, I was havin a little drink with my mum and dad in the house and telling them about the holiday. Then out of the blue, my dad said: "So Andy, did you take anything then?" and I just smirked right away (cos I'd taken a fair few pills and I'd never done any before Ibiza!) then my dad said "So you did then?" and I said "Ok i'll be honest, I took a few e's in Ibiza." Immense tension waiting to see how they'd react... Then my dad said: " You know what Andy, that's OK. In fact, I'd be slightly dissappointed if u didnt try them at least once to see what they were like and make the most of this once in a lifetime holiday expirience." And I was totally gobsmacked! My mum was also really cool with it! Although my parents only 40 (I'm 18) and they still act quite "youthfully" so they are in touch with most things. Like my mate's can always speak to them about shit sort of thing.

    That's the way mine reacted.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh yeh, and once I came in totally wrecked and full of the giggles. And I came in and my mum asked where I'd been, and I just started pissing myself laughing at her!! And she said "Oh Andy u waster!" and that was it!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ermmmm.......excellant these are so funny!! I went out on sat night for a drink and ended up doing 2 pills and 1/2 G of coke was fuckin wasted went back to me mates house- loads of us out of our box. still awake at 9 in the morning with me eyes really looking not good. realised I had to be home for 11 coz the WHOLE family where going out for mothers day !! oh my GOD !! and where were we going a fuckin Carvery not good when u are in the state I was in. I got home after walking all the way took me about an hour dancing and jumping saying "the nights of Niiiiiiiii" it was soooooooo funny!! N e way got home avoided the parents desperatly and was ironing somefink to where singing and dancing in my room desperatly trying to come down! When me mum came in and said Clare are u still drunk - giggling I replied "what are u talking about it's like 12 in the afternoon of cause I'm not !! lol!!!I'm pilling out me face !! na never really said that was well funny !! Got to the resaurant and saw the food- -Yuck I'm thinking me nan was there it was awful - I sat at the table after getting me food tried a green bean went to toilet and threw everywhere !! Told me dad he said u must be badley hungover I was like yeah whatever I am yeah !! Got me a cab and said Clare go home to bed !! yeah right went back the friends house and got stonned all day long !! Bring it onnnnnnnnnn !!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I smoke the odd bit of weed. I hope my mum doesn't find out cos she just won't understand. I have a suspicion she knows more than shes letting on. Or maybe thats just me?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i live with my nan who's well safe! (thought of as mum but technically my nan) she knows i smoke weed and i had to explain to her what a bong is the other day, also told her about my salvy experience which she found pretty interesting! I haven't told her about the pills but she wouldn't want to know, as she's told me before that "its your own funeral and your life". Best bit of it all though is i regulary go out with my aunt (more like an older sis) who i can pop with then stay at hers after....perfect for keepin up the little angel act as my aunt's always in the good books!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My parents decided that they wouldn't let me go out clubbing when I first asked, as I'm only seventeen (translate to 'as they don't want me doing lots of drugs', so I kinda have to hide it behind a wall of deciet every weekend.
    It was the family meal in a resturaunt on a sunday that got me the 'what are you on, your pupils are huge?' question. And there was also the 'are you drugged up or do you just look it?'


    I think that they think I take some drugs at peoples houses..... I'm fairly certain they don't know to what extent, as they still let me out of my house.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my parents were the first one's that introduced my to drugs. my mom started smoking weed with me @ the age of 13. i done some coke with my aunt and uncle @ the age of 15 and done acid with my mom and dad @ the age of 16.
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">i love my parents <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thing is most parents dont have a clue about drugs , what they know is what they hear on the news or read in papers and leaflets which only give a one sided (bad sided)view. My folks first found out about me smoking puff when they got a visit from the old bill wanting to search the house after I got nicked for possesion (why they had to search the house I dont know). At first they were a bit gutted but nothing major was said then after I started going out clubbing and coming home with massive pupils they started to get a bit sussed but again they rarely said anything. Then came the hard drugs which really set em off and they were saying shit like "Why cant you stick to pills and puff?" to which I payed no attention to. Thing is with me is im 23 (I know, 23 and still living at home with mummy and daddy) and my folks dont have any say in what I do with my life, they see it as its my life and if im going to fuck it up then thats up to me but deep down I know they are really gutted (especially me mum) but they've gone beyond trying to "redeem" me and see it as its up to me to sort shit out.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Clarabell you cheeky biaaaatch! It wasn't meant to be funny, i was tellin it like it was because I thought people might have been interested if they were thinkin of tellin their parents!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Heh, hope it doesn't smell of weed to strongly down here! If they smell it they'll be pissed off cos ive got a lecture 2moro! :S
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My mum asked me if i take extacy this sunday actually!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Just as i had doen with weed i said yes and she responded calmly and warned me (just as she had done before that althoguth she thoguth it was ok she was concerned it might lead on to worse things). We chatted about it for hours discussed all the dangers etc.. and she said i had to live my own life and that if she was my age now that she would try it and in a joking kind of was asked me to get her some <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">. It was the best talk weve probly ever had and we talked aout her and her life for the first time ever. It was realy good.

    -Underdog
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My big sis (2 years older) has just moved into her own bedroom (cos my dad has just made it) and she turned to my mum the other day and said 'im gonna be smokin weed in here mum cos its legal and you cant do nothin about it, so why dont you smoke it?' my mum just smiled. I couldn't believe it.

    i know my mum smoked a joint when she was younger cos she told me and that she whited out. She also told me that she'd had poppers too. I couldn't believe it!

    I remeber on etime when i was little at a wedding and my bigger sis (9 years older) was out the back of the pub havin a crafty joint with my dad when my mum walked out and caught them. She went MAD!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    do you know the maddest thing, one day we will be parents and our kids will be posting away asking each other what we might do if we found out ! perhaps that'll explain the level of understanding on most of these threads

    drugs may be the road to nowhere, but at least there the scenic route
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im just glad my parents don't know how to use the computer, id be in shit if they did.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I just hope my mum doesn't decide to look through the history. I may as well jus give her a written and signed confession!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well before i gave up smoking weed my parents were ok with it, in fact one time i actually shared a joint with my mum! She suffers from arthritis and wanted to know what the fuss was about, she is now pro-cannabis. While my dad is still being a stick in the mud.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I'm in a bit of a sticky situation at the moment, you guys remember me, my flat in the UK and so on...

    Well, my parents decided to try and get back some of the money on months rent in advance which we are owed from my old landlord. He got called and sort of said some of the things which happened while in there and now my parents have been handling 'you, drugs and the law' pamflets and all this other shite...

    My dad also thinks I'm a huge weed smoker or former one (clever dad.. lol) after my interest in discovering that the former owners of the house grew the stuff in my garden and my interest in finding it...

    Serious tho, I think my landlord has said something along the lines that I was running a brothel (I wish) and had regular drug parties (*ahem* shit!) and I dare to think whatelse!

    One day I wish I could tell them, but I can't honestly see it, a large chunk of my reason for coming to NZ was to cut down my drug intake... 5 pills a night and a gram isn't healthy.. top that with being stoned 6 nights a week...
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