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lack of communication or not?
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im really happy being with my girlfriend, and i know shes happy being with me. i feel like were making out more than we talk but not like were refusing to talk. im mildly confussed as to wether this is normal
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It's a bit of a mindfuck if she's more into sex right enough, but cherish the mindfuck while it's there.
I wouldn't say it's normal, or abnormal. But the fact that you have posted about it suggests that maybe you would like to spend more time talking to her than you currently are, and maybe you're keen to find out if you have more in common? Obviously I'm just playing a guessing game here as you haven't given much detail. If that is the case then I don't think there's anything wrong with initiating more conversation - or maybe you could take her for dinner where it's easy to talk, and not so easy to slip into just making out.
Hope that helps.