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Help?! PLEASE!!!!
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hey, i need a lil help, looking for a programme i can download for free or even get a demo of to look at what my girlfriend is doing on the net. i think she is getting naked on webcam for my ex but i cant prove it.
i was hoping there was a programme that i could install on the computer that would tape everything on there, like hitting record on the video player.
But i need it so she cant see the programme is running.
PLEASE HELP !
Love SMOOCHME xx
i was hoping there was a programme that i could install on the computer that would tape everything on there, like hitting record on the video player.
But i need it so she cant see the programme is running.
PLEASE HELP !
Love SMOOCHME xx
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That's a point. SmoochMe, tell me her name and I'll tell you if she is.
As for the question, I really don't care if she is and there is no way on earth that I would help, support or advise when it comes to snooping on someone. If you don't trust her then dump her.
TBH If this is any indication of how you treat her, I hope she dumps you before you become a complete control freak.
P.S have you actually asked her what she is doing. I agree with MoK, i wouldnt help anybody spy on someone. Ask her, get it out in the open or end it. Simple!
NO
unless everyone can watch your girlfriend stripping on cam
Quite. If you can't trust your partner, get out.
so i dont know... Please some1 help me out.
GOOGLE.
Hi there SmoochMe, this sounds like a bit of a nightmarish situation and it's clear you are worried about the actions of your girlfriend - but what you are suggesting is really quite worrying and could destroy your relationship regardless of whether she is doing what you suspect or not. Trust is really important, and if you start to snoop, you need to be ready for the consequences.
You say your ex has put this idea into your head, so if that's true, could you ask your ex to confront her about it in front of you? Or even tell her what your ex has told you and give her a chance to give her side of the story (if there even is one) Communicating in any relationship is far more effective than going behind someone's back.
I hope you manage to work through this. Take care
But i dont want to be searching for hours through amature porn to find out.
And if i ask her, she will just say i obviously dont trust her enough and freak out! i would rather just find out my way and if its true, then she can shout all she likes about invading privacy i dont care, if it isnt true, she is none the wiser and i will learn not to take all things so serisouly if something like this comes up again.