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getting TOO wet+turned on during sex
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ok, wierd problem.....this has never happened to me before, ive always been what id consider 'normal' in this particular topic....but with this new guy im seeing im becoming too turned on and 'wet' 
its a problem because there is less friction+grip down there because im so excited, and it feels gross for me, like slimy :yuck:
whats causing this? could it be medical...like an increase in discharge or something?
Thanking you all in advance, and sorry for the grossness of this thread!
L+C
its a problem because there is less friction+grip down there because im so excited, and it feels gross for me, like slimy :yuck:whats causing this? could it be medical...like an increase in discharge or something?
Thanking you all in advance, and sorry for the grossness of this thread!
L+C
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As for your problem. Are you really into this guy ? Is the sex really good and horny ? If yes, then i'd just say it's your body's natural reaction to a horny shag. If you wanted a bit more friction then i suppose it's possible to dry yourself out a bit with some tissue. I wouldn't use the kitchen sponge, might get an infection
I don't have a solution for you, just sympathy!
Does it just happen when you're having sex, or when you do other things too?
May it even be possible that he's oozing precum?!
Perhaps try some Kegal exercises if you don't already? Okay i know it won't help with you being over wet, but it'll help tighten things up a little more, which should give you an increase in friction?
Failing that, just imagine him as one of the crankies going down on you, should stop you being quite so turned on!
rubberskin - yes i am really attracted to him, and the sex is very good, maybe tissue would help if i could do it sneakily without him seeing!
1983 - im very glad you got rid of a guy that said that to you!!!
Lipsy - i had a full STI check about 3 weeks ago+i was all clear...and he's only slept with 2 girls before me and he's ALWAYS used protection!......so could it still be an sti?
Mr orange - i will try kegal exercises! it could be pre-cum.....but theres a hell of alot of it if it is that!
I love a wet girl!
shows your gettint turned on, he should be flattered, no moaning about it.
tell him to lick it all up if it bothers him so much
lolll sorry this made me laugh, what a knobber!
Haha I HAVE NO BREASTS!
What the fuck? lol
lipsy - could it maybe be thrush? or be caused by him not wearing a condom?
It may be that you are used to condoms then because I find condoms really dry me out. But without condoms I'm a lot wetter.
and by the way....i am on other contraceptive methods, and we're both sti clean...hence not using condoms!
When I was on the pill I used to find that I would be a lot wetter without the sex being any better (poetry!), so obviously hormonal fluctuations can have an effect. Have you switched pills recently or anything like that? I think it can largely depend on where you are in your cycle, too, you produce more fluid around the time you ovulate so that could be it.
That said, it's most likely just to be the fact that you're really turned on. Is it a problem in that he's slipping out? That's the only real downside I can see, other than lack of friction/sensation.
Oops, just saw that you aren't using condoms. In that case, just enjoy yourself and try and put it out of your mind. Or go for a discreet dry out
i used to be on the pill, but recently (about 7months ago) changed to the patch which has been alot better for me!
i know he isnt bothered...but its the lack of friction that was worrying me....i just want him to enjoy it!
:yes:
its really been bugging me, happens especially with one particluar guy who makes me SO horny, and i get so wet it slips out! grrrr
doesnt seem like theres much we can do tho... oh well