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no pleasure at all?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Me and my hubby are going through a dry spell just now... all he seems to want to do is sleep. So i bought myself a vibrator... and he knew about it and was ok with it... that was about 8months ago... its great for me as it gives me what i need when hes snoring his face off! but last night i went to get it from the drawer and its not there.... and i know 100% that is where i put it back! I think he must have hidden it or something... now i have searched the house high and low for it and just cant find it :mad: i am frustrated as i am horny... and my hubby has now decided instead of speanding a night in.. he is going out to pay footie!

ahhhh... and i would ask him about it, but then he will moan its because i use that more than i do him... well a snoring,sweaty guy isnt exactly a turn on! and i just like having it there for my... urges lol!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    erm..fingers???
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you need to have a chat! If he has hidden your vibrator that's just not cool, it's like you hiding all of his porn or something. If he's insecure, which it sounds to me like he could be, it needs to be talked out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe he's using it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    Maybe he's using it?

    :lol::heart:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Miss_K wrote:
    a snoring,sweaty guy isnt exactly a turn on!

    If you think that about your husband its no wonder that a) he's paranoid and b) your sex life's gone to pot.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Miss_K wrote: »
    :mad:

    Me and my hubby are going through a dry spell just now... all he seems to want to do is sleep. So i bought myself a vibrator... and he knew about it and was ok with it... that was about 8months ago... its great for me as it gives me what i need when hes snoring his face off! but last night i went to get it from the drawer and its not there.... and i know 100% that is where i put it back! I think he must have hidden it or something... now i have searched the house high and low for it and just cant find it :mad: i am frustrated as i am horny... and my hubby has now decided instead of speanding a night in.. he is going out to pay footie!

    ahhhh... and i would ask him about it, but then he will moan its because i use that more than i do him... well a snoring,sweaty guy isnt exactly a turn on! and i just like having it there for my... urges lol!

    Can't you improvise?... I'm sure there's plenty of household objects you could use. Battery operated toothbrush for example, Not like he's gonna hide your toothbrush ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think you need to speak to him about it....and if he says he hid it because he's worried you're using it too much then u both need to address the real issue here - your lack of a sex life! you both need to cooperate to get the spark back again!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    Maybe he's using it?

    That was my first thought, too :p Stranger things have happened...

    Either that or he is just deeply, deeply insecure about your sex life and the vibrator is the easiest thing to blame. You need to talk.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote: »
    Either that or he is just deeply, deeply insecure about your sex life and the vibrator is the easiest thing to blame. You need to talk.

    My ex started getting paranoid about my vibrator despite having bought it me. I think it was because I'd lost alot of interest in him and started using it more.

    To be fair though, our sex life was shit. I preferred the thing to him. He was just boring. Nothing we tried improved it. The spark just went.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Snow White Queen* wrote: »
    My ex started getting paranoid about my vibrator despite having bought it me. I think it was because I'd lost alot of interest in him and started using it more.

    To be fair though, our sex life was shit. I preferred the thing to him. He was just boring. Nothing we tried improved it. The spark just went.
    I bet it had more of a personality :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hahaha. You could say that :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if hes enough energy to play football, he should have energy to give u some lovin! maybe he's angry tho like everyone said, jelous? try talking to him about it just incase.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kermit wrote: »
    If you think that about your husband its no wonder that a) he's paranoid and b) your sex life's gone to pot.

    :yes: thats pretty much what i was going to say. lol
    don't you talk together?
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