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Bondage and Suspension??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hi all, this would have been my firt postif the Blumpkin one hadnt caught my eye.

I was wonderign if anyone knows anything about suspension, where hooks pierce the skin and you are suspended from ropes or chains and sex acts are performed on you? Its something id like to try with my boyfriend but he seems a little unsure about the whole thing

cheers

jozz

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i once saw that on a film,cant remember which one,but it looks awfully painful.i would look into the legalities of it first because you could cause your boyfriend some harm?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    are you both into other sorts of bondage already, cos I would say its the sort of thing to work your way up to rather than go straight into from normal vanilla sex.
    Bit extreme.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote:
    are you both into other sorts of bondage already, cos I would say its the sort of thing to work your way up to rather than go straight into from normal vanilla sex.
    Bit extreme.

    yes we have tried various types of bondage, we have worked our way up to a recent latex semi-asphyxiation session and we are also into quite rough sex,

    i think its piercing the skin that puts him off...

    this is th esort of thing i wa slooking at at work today

    http://www.erosboutique.org/store/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=erosbout&Product_Code=SkinHooks&Category_Code=hardware
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You and Dan Moody ought to get it together ... ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol, thats the sort of thing you should AVOID looking at whilst at work tbh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not sure about the sex side of thing, but the only times I've seen suspension using hooks as been part of performance art and there's always been a doctor present. That's not to say people can't or don't do it - but I think it's pretty obvious that being suspended by anything that can tear or cut through skin is something you'd need to be extremely well prepared for.

    To be honest, suspension would seem to be something to experiment with, if that's your bag, a long time before moving onto to any elements that include piercing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bit weird that youve come here to ask about it as a first post rather than a specialist website tbh.
    I get the feeling you are just taking the piss.

    If not, youre probably better off somewhere like bondage.com for safety tips from people that actually do it rather than just trying to shock people for a laugh, cos tbh it doesnt really work.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Much as it does seem odd, people always deserve the benefit of the doubt - the ip addresses of the two recent posters on these subjects don't currently match. So for now we'll assume they are legitmate - although we will obviously be keeping an eye on things.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Suspensiuon doesn't just have to be through piercing and hooks- most specialist websites don't even use that. What's wrong with a bit of rope?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its the actual piercing of the skin that really turns me on
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