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So, why do it? I am so angry right now, plus a little broken!
In short, i thought i was seeing a girl who cared as much about me as i do about her, she even told me she did and never made out she had any doubts. She even told me she never ever lied to me about anything and never would, yet today put all that out the window.
Firstly, thi smorning started normally, i got up for work and she was texting me and flirting with me, generally what we always do, she was saying how much she was looking forward to getting to talk to me after work, This afternoon when i got home we spoke a little bit on phone about dvds and films and stuff and flirted. Then out of the blue i go on msn to check who was online, and she was, said hello to her and she was all
at me and saying she wanted to be friends and only friends and loved me ages ago but fell out of love with me ages ago too and has been tricking herself and leading me on and always doubted "us" and lied about it all this time! :impissed:
Why not just have been upfront before i had a chance to fall for her? It's is so fucking sickening, just makes me feel like crap, especially her chirpy way about wanting to be friends and saying nothing will change except we wont say how we feel about each other
WTF is that about?
In short, i thought i was seeing a girl who cared as much about me as i do about her, she even told me she did and never made out she had any doubts. She even told me she never ever lied to me about anything and never would, yet today put all that out the window.
Firstly, thi smorning started normally, i got up for work and she was texting me and flirting with me, generally what we always do, she was saying how much she was looking forward to getting to talk to me after work, This afternoon when i got home we spoke a little bit on phone about dvds and films and stuff and flirted. Then out of the blue i go on msn to check who was online, and she was, said hello to her and she was all
at me and saying she wanted to be friends and only friends and loved me ages ago but fell out of love with me ages ago too and has been tricking herself and leading me on and always doubted "us" and lied about it all this time! :impissed:Why not just have been upfront before i had a chance to fall for her? It's is so fucking sickening, just makes me feel like crap, especially her chirpy way about wanting to be friends and saying nothing will change except we wont say how we feel about each other
WTF is that about? 0
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I'd agree with that.
It's one thing having a bad day, but she's shown a total lack of consideration for your feelings here mate.
Seems like a really drastic change though. Have to say that my first thought through reading all that was that it could have been somebody else (an ex or something?) using her MSN account? It's maybe unlikely though and I wouldn't want to get your hopes up or owt.
Try not to let her make you bitter, you deserve someone better than that.
(as it happens, he did see me in my underwear. and out of it. oops.
Ohh that sounds pretty embarrasing
aww that sucks, guy sounds like a right game playing tosser.
so he was pretty much doing the dirty on his gf with you by txting you in that way and leading you o by not saying he had a gf. Shocking stuff.
What a plank. His loss, like.
Bullseye I'm not sure what to say. Something kinda similar happened to me when I was younger and I didn't just let it drop, yammered on about it like a nincompoop and fully regretted it later. I have a headache so I'm not going to go in huge rambling spiels as I think Rach was bang on... my only advice to you is cut her loose and move on completely.
I was a cow and I hurt people. I've also been on the receiving end of it and I know how bad it can be. In fact, it's even difficult for the 'confused' person as all the time your emotions are changing.
I know that none of that will really help you, but at least it might go some way to help you understand what is going on. Seriously, keep away. There's a good chance it could all happen again and you'll only end up more hurt than before. Be British; stiff upper lip and all that.