Goin to uni ???

Former Member · January 2001

Right this might sound really weird to a lot of people, but its been spinnin around in my head. I am really small, skinny, and not THAT attractive (but not pig ugly !!!). The thing is, i am goin to uni this autum, and i am a bit worried as i will b about the youngest there, and to b honest even girls my age at school are out of my depth ( I feel better around younger girls, like a lot of blokes).
I dont want another year of lonlieness, and uni will b my last chance of meetin sum1 before im s'posed to b a mature adult !!!
Any help much appreciated.

Girl-From-Mars · January 2001

mojo, dont think of uni as the LAST way to meet someone. its just going to be a great time, and you'll meet loads of people your age with the same interests as you, and possibly make some really great friends you'll keep all your life. its a great opportunity to meet prospective partners though, but dont think you have to, or that its your only chance.

just make sure you go out and get involved with everything, join clubs and go out with people from your course, or from your hall. just be friendly and be yourself, you'll find someone who wants to spend time with you and who appreciates you for who you are <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">

which uni are you going to, and what course do you want to do?? i'm probably going to be going to cardiff to do biochemistry, im really looking forward to it! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">

If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.

Former Member · January 2001

Don't worry about girls being out of your depth. Don't be afraid of rejection either. No one achieves success first time round. I am 30 and have lots of mates that were too shy or scared to even talk to girls in their early twenties and they regret it now. Don't waste any time worrying - you are young, you have everything to gain and if you do meet a girl you like - just talk to her. The worst that can happen is if she knocks you back your pride will be a bit dented. So what? Pick yourself up, and try again. Just try to make friends. We have all made arses of ourselves in front of girls! It's all part of meeting the right person.

Just remember, it does not matter what you look like. It's all about how you feel about yourself. I have every confidence in you! You just need to have confidence in yourself. GO FOR IT AND ENJOY!

Former Member · January 2001

Hey mojo, I know exactly the thing you are going through, I too am off to university in the near future, and I used to have the biggest confidence problem, Im still not the most extrovert person in the world, but at least I talk to girls, and I used to feel better around slightly younger girls (One year below, im no perv) and as for uni being your LAST (Dramatic noise in the background) chance to meet someone, just kick back and enjoy the experience. Which uni u going to? plus dont even try for girls, dont try and you succeed. isnt that right ladies? anyway good luck my man, and let us know eh?

D K

I never said I loved you...
However I will fuck you...
until someone better comes along!!!!

Former Member · January 2001

Don't look for love, and then it will find you.

Ok, sorry that's a really shit piece of advice, i'll start again.

Don't worry about girls being out of your league, if u believe u will never find a girl, then u won't.

Don't worry about meeting someone, when the time is right, they will come along.

Making new friends and having a laff @ uni shud b ur first priority, (apart from work of course lol).

I'm sure u'll find sum1 when u least expect it. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">

The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.

Goin to uni ???

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