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What a difference a year makes eh?
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Well what a generally shit year its been relationship wise for me. This time last year i was just starting to see the girl i fell in love with. We would text each other every day, we spent alot of time together, we laughed, we had fun, we went for walks, we fed the ducks .. was my best christmas and the happiest ive been for some time. And now a year later, after having my heart broken and seeing her with someone else i tell her tonight that i cant see her anymore, that i want her to stop contacting me. Not because i hate her but because i havent let her go, i havent moved on
No real point to this post, just felt like writing. Shit happens eh? You lose people that you love and she probably doesnt even realise it yet.
No real point to this post, just felt like writing. Shit happens eh? You lose people that you love and she probably doesnt even realise it yet.
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Unfortunate things do happen in life, but I expect that sooner than you might think things could pick up again . Well, that's what I tell myself as without hope I don't think I'd have anything.
Whatever happens, give it time, you may still end up friends with the other party involved.
G.
You too shyboy and everyone else in pain
I had just got out of a really emotionally damaging relationship. I thought that my head was so fucked that i'd never want to be with anyone ever again!
But i was proven wrong :hyper:
So yeh. It might not seem like it now but life has a way of suprising you when your not expecting it.
I think cutting contact with the girl is probably the best thing. It will give you more of a sense of closure.
Take care.
i'm sort of in the same boat.. i had three of the happiest christmas' i've ever had the last few years.. then we broke up after 3yrs mid-november this year after some things she did..
really is bizarre how quickly your life can change
try to have a good christmas all! i think we deserve it !
-seekay
They really have helped me this year, and having them all back is amazing.
Seeing the ex the other day was a big mind fuck, but hey, life carries on, im not going to stop for her.
Sounds like a lot of people need a hug !!
*hug* to all the unhappy people, remember :
"Don't cry over someone who won't cry over you."
Hmm ... but i know she cries over me ...
But anyway ... sda .. thats so sad .. hope things improve for you soon.
but every cloud and all that, hope everyone feels better.
Ah, you arent the only one here
It doesnt seem to get easier :nervous: