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My girl set the frame at the start of a "relationship" asking me how id feel about her experimenting with women, and I said itd bother me, and then back tracked a bit and said if she didnt keep me aware of what was going on. But now its REALLY fucknig me off, is there anyway I can sort this out the complications are this :
1.She thinks im fine with it
2.She's insisting on not wanting a real relationship because she wants to be able to do this.
Do I have a choice? I was just thinknig of making her fall in love with me, and being so great in bed she wouldnt want anything else, but shes going to this gay club in a couple of days and its really starting to get to me.
Evil_dave
1.She thinks im fine with it
2.She's insisting on not wanting a real relationship because she wants to be able to do this.
Do I have a choice? I was just thinknig of making her fall in love with me, and being so great in bed she wouldnt want anything else, but shes going to this gay club in a couple of days and its really starting to get to me.
Evil_dave
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if you don't tell her you're not ok with it then you're only going to have yourself to blame for being a headfuck
Mate, if she likes girls, she ain't gonna give a flying fuck if your good in bed.
You need to tell her that your uncomfortable with it. She'll probably turn around and say you should have said that at the start, but give it a go.
Shit situation, but it's only going to batter your brains even more if you keep clinging onto her while she's off pulling other people (whether they're female or male is irrelevant imo) I think you should start putting your feelings for yourself before your feelings for her :thumb:
Lol cos of the good advice people give?
Well i changed that because of the good advice OTHER people gave.
Look it's not my fault you pulled a bird that wants to experiment. I mean really i don't understand why your moaning about it, seeing as you knew from the start. Hey why don't you ask her if you can join in? Then she can get what she wants, and you can get some shaggin practice in for the next lucky lady :thumb:
Really that is some quality advice.
That will always be a part of her personality, you need to keep the lines of communication open.
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Honest communication in this, as you have found out, is paramount.