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When you're drunk, do you think you're more honest or do you lie more?
Me? I am just as reticent as I am sober, haha.
Although I'm more affectionate than I should, especially when around mates. I tell them I love them and their face and smooch them lots and tell them our friendship is better than them in Babysitter Club books, hahaha.
What about you?
Me? I am just as reticent as I am sober, haha.
Although I'm more affectionate than I should, especially when around mates. I tell them I love them and their face and smooch them lots and tell them our friendship is better than them in Babysitter Club books, hahaha.
What about you?
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If I'm going out with a girl I like I rather not get too drunk, but it helped girls loosen their tongue a bit so I knew where I stand and sometimes something developed out of it.
I have dished out some dreadful home truths when I've been pie-eyed in the past, though drugs have landed me in deeper shit revelation-wise :crying: I do also have the tendency to sit people down for long chats in which I tell them I love them from the centre of the earth to the highest cloud, which is all truth but not my style when sober at all.
I tend to swear and rant more:(
I am usually very honest but sometimes, when I'm drunk, I end up telling people how I really feel about matters, things that I should just keep to myself. I then regret it the next day and think 'oh fuck. did I really tell them that?'
I am also much more affectionate and find it much much easier to talk about 'serious' issues. Also, if something is bugging me, it usually comes out when I'm pissed too.
I don't think I've ever lied as such when drunk but I think I've sometimes said things I don't really mean, particularly to ex boyfriends who I think I love when I'm drunk when in reality, sober, I'd rather stick pins in my eyes than go out with them again.
I tend to think "Fuck it. The world would be a better place if everybody said what they feel, so I'm going to tell everybody I'm with that I love them and I'm going to text half my phonebook with the same sentiment". Especially at New Year :nervous:
Usually it's either that or I get really highly strung, like hollering "I DON'T WANT A KEBAB I WANT A CHINESE? WHAT'S SO WRONG ABOUT ME AS A PERSON THAT I CAN'T HAVE A CHINESE?" when we're in the kebab shop and there's not a Chinese nearby.
I've a horrible phoning or texting my exes telling them I miss them and stuff. Not so much now, but usually for a couple of weeks after we've split up. Feel like such a fucking loser the next day, usually cause they text the next morning telling me to grow up :thumb:
If I feel like doing or saying something, good or bad, I'll do or say it! Sometimes this can be good stuff like telling my mates how much they mean to me or getting in with a girl, but sometimes it can leave me in some shit like getting thrown out of a club or getting a broken nose.
Me too. I also have a tendency to do this to COMPLETE STRANGERS. When I like the look of someone and I'm drunk, they sure know about it
Ohh and I hug people and txt them that I love them.
But that's not a lie.