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Venting and advice time for AARJ
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So my girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago. We agreed to still be friends and all that. I've been away at college while she's finishing up her senior year of high school. At some point she found somebody else, so she ended her relationship with me.
I don't really know what to do about it. It has to be close to a month now, but every time I start to think that I'm over this girl all it takes is a picture of her, or just something that remindes me of her to bring it all back. I was really in love with her, and up untill recently I thought she felt the same about me.
This really has got to stop. If I'm going to be friends with this girl later on down the line (and I really want to), I need to get over her now before we stop talking all together.
So, advice please. How do you get over someone you've fallen for really hard?
I don't really know what to do about it. It has to be close to a month now, but every time I start to think that I'm over this girl all it takes is a picture of her, or just something that remindes me of her to bring it all back. I was really in love with her, and up untill recently I thought she felt the same about me.
This really has got to stop. If I'm going to be friends with this girl later on down the line (and I really want to), I need to get over her now before we stop talking all together.
So, advice please. How do you get over someone you've fallen for really hard?
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:yes: aswell as taking onboard the above, you may find this article on mending a broken heart helpful. Take good care of yourself
I have my bad days and the past few days have been bad. Trying to reason with myself when even he doesnt really know why he did it.
I know you wanna stay friends. So do I. I am having 3 months of no contact. When we see eachother again, I will be so terrified. I just want him back. And I know that you want to stay friends partially for that opportunity later in life. Me too. *sigh*
I know what you're going through and it sucks. I cant tell you how long it will take as I am still hurting so so much. But I hope you get there soon.
Wise words. Taking time out from any kind of relationship with her, and being good to yourself are the only things that can really be advised... I wish there was a quicker and easier route to regaining a happy heart but if there is I haven't discovered it yet.
Take it easy