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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
okay...so i've been kicking about these forums for a while now, and i know i dont use them so much these days, but hey...

i'm a 19 year old female and im finding it hard to talk to friends about certain things
so basically... it would be really awesome if i could have a friend to talk to in real time (ie, msn) about things
it might sounds stupid, i know, but i need help and someone to talk to

i dont wont to worry my friends about me
and i dont want to burden them with my thoughts

i just need someone to talk to
who won't be prejudice

i'm a good listener, so i can be there in return

thank you... just PM if you wanna chat

=)

xo

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why don't you first off start being a bit more open on the boards? Most of us are willing to help and listen. That way you will build a bond between some of us, people that you are suited to.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm....I tried that.
    And a bunch of people added my LJ which was lovely.
    But I don't wanna be all full on with them if they don't need it, ya know?

    Also... i'd be posting things all over the board if i was to be really open about things, and I don't always have the chance/the time to do that.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But I doubt many people are willing to give MSN out if they don't have much insight into the person you are and what needs/friendship/advice you need.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    VinylVicky wrote:
    But I doubt many people are willing to give MSN out if they don't have much insight into the person you are and what needs/friendship/advice you need.

    you're right...
    it's just... my boyfriend randomly met a girl on myspace that i know he tells everything to. and i mean, everything. If I had someone like that I know that it would help me a great deal.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alternatively, people could have a browse at my myspace and have a look at the blog and stuff there and see what they wanna do??
    and PM me for the link?

    i dont know... i just need someone to talk to.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IWishIWas wrote:
    you're right...
    it's just... my boyfriend randomly met a girl on myspace that i know he tells everything to. and i mean, everything. If I had someone like that I know that it would help me a great deal.
    Give us all a try! You don't have to be transparent but a little insight into your problems etc and showing that you can listen and give advice would really help you along.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well...

    this is the story

    i. im putting in double the effort at uni (im in 2nd year) and getting not so much results
    ii. this is making me consider leaving, but id have nothing to do otherwise
    iii. my boyfriend is going through a REALLY tough time at the moment and i cant talk to people that he actually knows about it (ie, all of my friends)
    iv. he's been living here a lot because of these problems, and im not getting my space, and he's not getting his, so our relationship has been rather on the rocks recently
    v. he thinks he might have to move back home (a good two flights or so away)
    vi. ive started seeing a counsellor because ive been struggling really hard not to self harm again recently
    vii. i have horribly low self esteem and wished i felt better about myself. and i really really want to.
    viii. im doing everything i can to make things better for me and for my boyfriend but at the moment i dont seem to be getting anywhere

    and so i'd like someone to talk to, and someone to listen to, and someone to share these things with. it wouldnt be heavy all the time. fun is always good too!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I WANT TO BE YOUR e-FRIEND, PLEEEEEZZZZZZZZ
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    uhm...okay...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Feel free to give me a shout if you want to talk to someone. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IWishIWas wrote:
    19 year old female
    Im your new best friend. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well if you really wanna chat you can PM me, no?

    :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IWishIWas wrote:
    well if you really wanna chat you can PM me, no?

    :p
    What you wanna chat about. :naughty:

    Im not a good conversation anyway. :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HIT wrote:
    What you wanna chat about. :naughty:

    Im not a good conversation anyway. :(


    Shup :p

    I've never met a conversation... let alone a good one...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IWishIWas wrote:
    Shup :p

    I've never met a conversation... let alone a good one...
    Cool get chatting here. :cool:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok




















    Sup?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IWishIWas wrote:
    Ok




















    Sup?
    well






























    nothing.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sweet



    me neither
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IWishIWas wrote:
    sweet



    me neither
    kkkk what are you doing?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    browsing the forums to stop me from going back to studying

    you?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IWishIWas wrote:
    browsing the forums to stop me from going back to studying

    you?
    sending pms
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you're not the only one.

    :blush:
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