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" What the hell " !!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships

" OH MY GOD" !
Hi people <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
What the hell am i suppose to do!! Just as i thought my life was getting back on track,new job,new guy..etc! I come home from work to find my best friend with my little brother!!!! I mean it wouldn't bother me so much but she's 17 and hes....yuech 12!!!!! AAAAHHHHHHHHH! What to do,what to do??? I know its not love!! Anyone could see that! Hes a stupid wee brat!Ahh, i'm soo pissed off and angry!! How could she do this to me?!! Shes using him for the one thing!But from what i've heard he's nothing there! I mean...does he even know about puberty??!! Doesn't this just want to make you sick!!! What am i suppose to do?? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt; ! I don't care if i lose her as a friend....just keep her hands off my LITTLE brother!!! She used to be so nice, but as soon as we told her about her boyfriend hitting on us, shes gone from nice to a slag, shags anyone anywhere!! God, the shame!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt; My head hurts!! I dont even want to look at her/them it makes me sick!! And he doesn't know any better he just thinks its cool to have an older girlfriend!! Ahhhhhhhhhh

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You never get used to your youngers getting some.

    but 12?
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    oh my god!!! my brother's 12 too, i cant imagine any of my friends with him.. ugh!!! they cant see it either, they just see him as my little brother!!! wtf is your friend doing that for?? that is not a normal age gap, i mean 12 is a little bit too young!!

    im not sure what to suggest.. you could try talkign to them i guess about it... maybe your friend will realise shes being a bit off with the whole thing, age gap, 12 year old, friend's sister! i cant imagine talking to your bro would help if he just likes having an older girlfriend. hope you sort it out anyway!!
    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You ought to tell her to stay well away from him IMO. If this was the other way round the older person would end up in BIG trouble. There's not that much she could do to him probably that would damage him, but he could end up a bit fucked up and confused.

    She sounds pretty fucked up as well, sounds like she needs some help from someone.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What exactly did u c ?? Sounds like she is bein very perverted.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Agreed. Not many blokes at 12 have gone through much of puberty.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yuck. major scary moment!!
    ur gonna hafta sort the girl out, she sounds pretty damn screwed in the head. i mean, there's only so much u can do. and right now, ur main concern is getting thoughts of your brother doing anything close to that(esp@12) outta yer head!!
    oooooooooooooomigod.

    to finger paint is not a sin.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:
    yuck. major scary moment!!
    ur gonna hafta sort the girl out, she sounds pretty damn screwed in the head. i mean, there's only so much u can do. and right now, ur main concern is getting thoughts of your brother doing anything close to that(esp@12) outta yer head!!
    oooooooooooooomigod.



    Forget screwed in the head, she sounds positively fu***d up. Tell somebody, surely it is some kind of abuse, dunno if it is abusive to you or to him though....!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Damn 12?? dont think I could even do that much when I was 12.. but lucky kid.. sure at 13 I woulda loved a 17 yr old girl...
    As for ur friend.. mayb u should try setting her up with some blokes closer her age
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fucked up friend, lucky little dude. But like it's been said, it's not easy seeing your little sibs finding a special someone, but this hardly seems like a special someone. Tell your friend she's truly fucked and to never set foot in your house again, never touch your little bro again.
    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mate that sux!

    I'd say that's definitely weird. 5 years at that age is a HUGE deal.

    Sounds to me that she might have done it for a reason, maybe she wanted you to see. Maybe she was mad at you about the bf hitting on you thing and she was doing it to hurt you sortof. Whatever the case, for whatever reason to she did it she sounds like she's extremely insecure and definitely needs some help.

    In any case, put your foot down. Also - keep in mind that its probably just a fling or for alterior motives so it won't last too long.



    [This message has been edited by trancegrrl (edited 10-01-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oe of my mates snogged my bro when he was 13 and she was 14, not so bad but i still didnt like the thought of my mate with her grubby mits on my bro cos i knew what she was like with other lads!

    But a 17 year old girl with a 12 year old lad phew!
    MTS ^5
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