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Not Cumming...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Well i never thought i would be posting here for afew more years!!

Well saturday night... something happened with these 2 lady friends of mine and we all had a bottle of drink each, and started off with dry sex and just getting "into things"

And ended up with one of them tossing me off and getting head, the thing is i really wanted to cum but in the end we had to give up because i had to go!

I dont know why i didnt!!! altought there was many times when i came close too.

My friend has said it may of been due to the drink but im just wondering if it was pressure or something else?

Thanks

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Drink is usually to blame!
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    smitherzsmitherz Posts: 968 Part of The Mix Family
    stress, drink, drugs etc.... this can all effect coming.

    Or maybe she wasn't good enough
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Probably pressure, I've found it hard to cum when recieving head and hand jobs when under pressure from time sometimes.... strange this never happens during sex or when I'm wanking with my own hand
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I usually get delayed cumming. Sometimes I dont cum for ages, but usually its because the girl isnt very good. Well thats what I think.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HIT wrote:
    I usually get delayed cumming. Sometimes I dont cum for ages, but usually its because the girl isnt very good. Well thats what I think.

    Charming!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Scary Monster wrote:
    Charming!
    lol only girls my age. Older women are good though.
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    smitherzsmitherz Posts: 968 Part of The Mix Family
    HIT wrote:
    lol only girls my age. Older women are good though.

    Yea yeah :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It seems surprisingly that you didn't come, but let's face it, there are a few obvious factors such as nerves, drink and thinking about time constraints that might have stopped you.

    HIT - if I said that every sexual partner who didn't make me orgasm "wasn't very good" then I'd be writing off a lot of men.

    Sometimes it just isn't happening for you, sometimes you want to and you can't. For me, anyway, the point where I start even thinking about whether or not I'm going to come is the point where the writing's on the wall and I've got no chance. Just chill out next time, enjoy it for what it is (and it sounds like you had a pretty good thing going on, to be honest!) and don't put so much pressure on yourself to come - or on the girl to make you :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I always find it weird that I can knock one out within a few mins, yet when Im in the same situation with a girl I take longer.
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    smitherzsmitherz Posts: 968 Part of The Mix Family
    HIT wrote:
    I always find it weird that I can knock one out within a few mins, yet when Im in the same situation with a girl I take longer.

    If you was with a girl, would you even want to cum that quickly?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    smitherz wrote:
    If you was with a girl, would you even want to cum that quickly?
    lol ofcourse not.

    Just intersting how thinking about being with a girl make me cum quick, yet being with one doesnt.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Most likely a combination of drink and nerves. Next time, less drink and more relaxed ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Like i already said , its bound to be how much you drank and possibly trying to hard!, Relax a little
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    smitherz wrote:
    Or maybe she wasn't good enough

    I think differently:razz:

    Cheers for that guys:thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bunglenutter wrote:
    I think a more appropriate topic here would be the fact that you had a fling with two lady friends YOU LUCKY FUCK :banghead:
    lol true.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And it was my first time:angel:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haha, well said bungle :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    CoolMe wrote:
    And it was my first time:angel:
    Ahhhh *grabs checks of face* come here you. :D

    Two women for you first time, that a result.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And im only 15!

    Afew months old 15 may i add:lol:

    And i wernt
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    CoolMe wrote:
    And im only 15!

    Afew months old 15 may i add:lol:

    And i wernt

    Tut tut. Underage sex (well nearly :p) and drinking :no:

    Wasn't there some homework you should have been doing?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ha! Well it was a night for fun! and it was:cool:

    Boo homework!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm having flashbacks here. Although TBH I shot my wad.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In about 30 seconds?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :p

    Thankfully not.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Man Of Kent wrote:
    I'm having flashbacks here. Although TBH I shot my wad.

    me 2. I can beat him though, I was 13. or maybe thats just strange...:chin:
    anyways if the lasses were only 15 they probably weren't so good at making boys cum. unless u got with the school schlags ;)
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