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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I've been going out with this boy for about a month, and things are going really well. Just recently i have been worried because he's told me that he's going to start being friends with his ex again. i'm really worried cos his ex is known for being really flirty, eg she got off with one of my friend's boyfs recently. i'm not sure if i should say anything to him, as i don't want him to think i don't trust him, cos i do, i just don't trust her!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Talk to him about it and tell him you're worried. Tell him you trust him but you don't like her, and you worry she'll try and hit on him, or something similar.

    Don't go over the top or accuse him and I'm sure he'll be fine and not get annoyed, and put your fears to rest.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wen my ex-bf started talkin 2 his ex again & started bein friendly wiv her, he ended up cheatin on me wiv her. (bstard). Neway, dis isnt bout me, its bout u lol. I fink u shud b cautious tel him ur not 2 hapy and c wot his reaction is. I ges if theres a lot of trust in ur relationship then he wont do nefink, but there wasnt in mine.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think u should tell him, he'll respect u for it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dirty_harry:
    i think u should tell him, he'll respect u for it.

    You seem to be giving a lot of good serious advice for a change Harry. Good man.

    Yeah, I'd have to go along with what Harry said - talk to him.
    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    You seem to be giving a lot of good serious advice for a change Harry. Good man.

    Yeah, I'd have to go along with what Harry said - talk to him.


    ive run out of humour. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dirty_harry:
    ive run out of humour. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    A tragedy!!! Harry's run out of humour!! How could it happen! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt;
    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tragedy indeed!
    but thanks guys, i'm not that worried anymore, not really sure why, but just realised that he wouldn't do that to me. And as Racheal said, he's not worth it if he does. i will talk to him about it if i get worried again though, thank you!
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