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She likes me but I never have a chance
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Basically the situation is, I recently changed colleges and in one of my new classes (which I don't know anyone in) there is this girl who always sits on the opposite side of the room to me with all her friends and from the first time I saw her I knew I'd grow to become obsessed lol.
And I was right, I couldn't stop thinking about her but I thought that she hadn't even acknowledged my existance until a couple of weeks ago when not many of her friends turned up for the lesson and she came and sit next to me...the new, loner kid of the class who doesn't talk to anyone, completely out of the blue. Anyway we started talking and we got on really well, I mean REALLY well for two people who have never even spoken before and it soon became obvious to me that she was flirting. However after this lesson, she continued to sit with her friends but every lesson I always catch her looking at me (mainly cos I always end up looking at her) but either she or I glance away as soon as we make eye contact. Anyway I'm pretty sure she likes me due to our first encounter and the way she's always staring at me accross the room....trouble is she always sits with her friends and I don't know anyone in the class and I'm a really really shy person around people I don't know so I'm never even going to get the chance to get to know her better....
Any ideas guys?
And I was right, I couldn't stop thinking about her but I thought that she hadn't even acknowledged my existance until a couple of weeks ago when not many of her friends turned up for the lesson and she came and sit next to me...the new, loner kid of the class who doesn't talk to anyone, completely out of the blue. Anyway we started talking and we got on really well, I mean REALLY well for two people who have never even spoken before and it soon became obvious to me that she was flirting. However after this lesson, she continued to sit with her friends but every lesson I always catch her looking at me (mainly cos I always end up looking at her) but either she or I glance away as soon as we make eye contact. Anyway I'm pretty sure she likes me due to our first encounter and the way she's always staring at me accross the room....trouble is she always sits with her friends and I don't know anyone in the class and I'm a really really shy person around people I don't know so I'm never even going to get the chance to get to know her better....
Any ideas guys?
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Yeah thats probably your best start!
Then try and catch her on the way out of a lesson or something and have a chat then.
Yeah that does sound like a plan...
I walked past her the other day and we sort of smiled at eachother and nodded but I couldn't pluck up enough courage to talk to her, I couldn't think of anything to say off the top of my head lol
you do not know if this girl likes you and seeing as you have to study with her, I'd take it very slow 'til you know the score.
Yeah I will pluck up the courage to talk, I'll start off asking about which film auteur she's chosen for her coursework or something...
But yeah I don't think I'll be going in for the pull right yet, espescially (as you pointed out VinylVicky) as I'm studying with her...could be very embarrasing
So yea, trying the glancing and just saying hi is a good start.
Do you queue up before going into class? Say hi to her and ask her how she is. Try and wangle it in seminars that you work together. Take an interest in her and try not to be too put off by her mates.
Remember that shy bairns get nowt. You don't have her now, and if you ask her out and she says no, you don't have her. You have got nothing to lose. That doesn't mean you should bound in and propose to her, do take things slowly, speak to her more until you know her better, but don't forget to flirt with her. Make sure you are a bit cheeky with her, don't be just a friend.
but it sounds like the girl really does like you and if you catch her eye again maybe smile at her
and try to talk to her if her mates leave her alone for a minute, it sucks they seem to be there alot
you could ask if she has msn or something? or, as you seem sure she likes her just ask her out! you've got nothing to loose, you can always be mates if she says no (which she won't)
good luck though, sounds like you have a good chance
Lesson was cancelled today
Uh huh, agreed, but do it with a bit of banter and light teasing like Kermit said or you might come across as needy. Then gradually build it up to casually asking her out...