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"Noone can tell your in love you just know it"?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Noone can tell you your in love you just know it...but do you. Im 17 male and ive met a girl i really like alot and care about, i miss her when shes not around, worry about her when shes ill or away, love talking and being with her, i feel i can tell her everything about me and talk to her about everything, i rush to find out if shes left me any messages or emails that kinda thing. But when she said she loved me and asked how do i feel all i could say was i like her alot, i dont think i know what love is (i truely like this girl more than been friends which is what we have been for quite a while, love or just a close friendship?), can you suggest anything to help me figure out if this is love i feel, i think i love her but im not sure *confussed*, any ideas or similar situations? thanx. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah I don't believe in love at first sight. U can walk down the street and get a tingle in your loins from many ppl, its purely physical. Love is built up over time I should know cos I've been there but I'm not going into that again! lol!
    Well if you think its the real deal then go for it lil buddy!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you go to sleep thinking about her and wake up thinking about her, if everything reminds you of her then its certainly a very strong attraction. Maybe love.

    Just tell her you like her as more than a mate, you certainly dont fall in love at first sight. But if you think about her all the time and want to be with her all the time it could be love.

    People dont wake up thinking 'Im in love', its kinda if that person takes over your thoughts <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    It matters not who won or lost, but how you place the blame.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cheers, makes me feel better.
    cyas
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *agrees with above postings*

    i don't really beleieve in love @ first site either but if u wake up thinking of her etc it most be well on its way. as you get to know somebody better though that is when you start to fall in love.

    in my opinion a good test for love woudl be to think if you just like someone alot / obsess about someone, chances are you are thinking only of their good qualities and blotting out any bad ones. If you love someone though you love there good and bad qualities - the bad ones are the ones that make them who they are and you can accept them.
    its not illegal til u get caught <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/monkbum.gif"&gt;
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