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Loneliness!!
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My boyfriend broke up with me in february and although we hadn't been going out for a long time (not much over a month), he was the one i lost my virginity to and we were both besotted with each other for some of that time so it took a while to get over him.
He's now going out with my best friend's sister [who is also my friend, but years older than me AND my ex]. I really hate this as it's caused a lot of tension between someone who I considered a close friend and myself, and who I will be spending a fortnight with in the summer.
I am over him. I am glad that i'm not involved with him anymore and actually feel sorry for this girl because she is going through what I went through with him (he gets bored) and she didn't think it would happen but it looks as though it is.
The problem is that I am just so lonely! Ever since about may last year there has been someone who I've been able to just kiss on a regular basis and lust over!! Right now there is nobody. I haven't kissed anyone in AGES and I'm really missing that sort of closeness. It's not even the sex that I miss, just having someone hug me? All of my (close) friends are involved and so don't understand it, they also feel that I've always been the one with a bloke so it doesnt matter that I havent got anyone. I really don't think thats fair as it doesn't mean it hurts any less to feel so alone.
Ohhh i dont know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> I have this bed [oh dear god i'm obsessive!!!!] and I used to have conversations with my boyfriend about what we'd do when I got it [ <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">].. now there is a big empty space [or not since i got so HUGE]
and it's just depressing me. I wanted this summer to be SO COOL. All of my friends are going to be off with their boyfriends and I'm going to be so alone!!!
There wasn't really a reason for this post I just wanted to write out how I feel shit right now and I haven't done any revision (really I haven't done any yet) and I want someone to be close to again.. BLEH.
Have you ever confused a dream with life?
He's now going out with my best friend's sister [who is also my friend, but years older than me AND my ex]. I really hate this as it's caused a lot of tension between someone who I considered a close friend and myself, and who I will be spending a fortnight with in the summer.
I am over him. I am glad that i'm not involved with him anymore and actually feel sorry for this girl because she is going through what I went through with him (he gets bored) and she didn't think it would happen but it looks as though it is.
The problem is that I am just so lonely! Ever since about may last year there has been someone who I've been able to just kiss on a regular basis and lust over!! Right now there is nobody. I haven't kissed anyone in AGES and I'm really missing that sort of closeness. It's not even the sex that I miss, just having someone hug me? All of my (close) friends are involved and so don't understand it, they also feel that I've always been the one with a bloke so it doesnt matter that I havent got anyone. I really don't think thats fair as it doesn't mean it hurts any less to feel so alone.
Ohhh i dont know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> I have this bed [oh dear god i'm obsessive!!!!] and I used to have conversations with my boyfriend about what we'd do when I got it [ <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">].. now there is a big empty space [or not since i got so HUGE]
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and it's just depressing me. I wanted this summer to be SO COOL. All of my friends are going to be off with their boyfriends and I'm going to be so alone!!!
There wasn't really a reason for this post I just wanted to write out how I feel shit right now and I haven't done any revision (really I haven't done any yet) and I want someone to be close to again.. BLEH.
Have you ever confused a dream with life?
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lol and i can't believe i'm posting all this i'm going to remeber in the morning and be kicking myself all day for it but what the hell <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I know I'm not perfect but I can smile
Ok i have no idea why i wrote this or why im gonna post it when i could just delete it!!!!
I kinda know how u feel. I was going out with a lad for nearly 16 months and he was my first real serious b/f. Things between us used to b fantastic, we hardly ever fell out or nething. It was great, I loved him 2 bits, well I still do!
But afta a while things started going wrong and we still dont know why it happened, so he suggested that we had a break which I didnt like that much, I couldnt stand not talking 2 him. Again we argued about this so he said he thought it was best if we split up until afta the exams or something when we wouldnt b so stressed out. So that's where we're at now and I hate it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
I feel so lonely without him, cos we shared everything 2getha. He was/still is my best friend but it's hard when we're still arguing! I love him like crazy and I hope things work out in the end, but if not then I'm glad he was my 'first' <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
That feels betta now i've got it off my chest <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">