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His ex girlfriend..
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I was just wondering if u think i should be worried...see my boyfreind was going out with someone for a year before me.They had to break up because she'd had a baby then had it adopted so they thought it would be best to break up so they could get over it.Anyway...obviously he must still have feelings for her being together so long etc and what they went through but he goes round her house for no reaosn at all and then comes back telling me she wants him back.Hes always telling me that shes been ringing him and texting him-fair enough they could be just freinds but not the amount of time that they wanna be together all the time.Ive told him before that i was worried that he might still like her cause she was so pretty and hes always talking about her.Maybe im just being jealous?or have i got a right to feel this way?i wouldnt mind him going round but then i dont no what theyre getting up to-i dont think he would do anything behind my back but then again can i be so sure??she knows hes with me now so why cant she just leave him alone!Anyone else had probs with boyf/girlf ex's? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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It really doesn't sound like anything's going on. He wouldn't mention it if anything was, he'd keep it a secret. He's with you now and she has to accept this. As long as *her* contacting *him* and not the other way round, I'd say give it time and hope she gets the message.
My ex kept contacting me when I was with someone else, and I know my new boyfriend hated it and probably felt like you do, but there was nothing going on. I wished he would leave me alone. I still do. Lets just hope she gets the message sooner rather than later.