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Wat am i gonna do??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Im 16 and I've neva had a real boyfriend, the last time i had a boyfriend i was 10!I dont know wat to do!Im always thinkin is there somethin wrong with me i just cant see?, but every1 just says your fine and theres nothin wrong with you.
When i go out it alwys seems to be the men or the much older boys who are interstd in me.I dont like it, its flatterin but i prefer someone who's more my own age,also im a christian and older boys are gonna expect more than i want to give.
I dont know wat to do....please help me.I dont know wat to do help!!null

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Relax and float along, do the stuff you enjoy.
    Then you're more likely to meet someone with similar interests, which is, I think, pretty important.

    Anyway, you're only 16, there's plenty of time yet!

    Someone will usually turn up...have fun <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im in kinda the same position cept not even older girls r interested in me i try not 2 worry but im crazy bout a girl who kinda hates my guts ive never done n e thing that im aware of 2 offend her i try 2 just say 2 myself its her loss it isnt but its best 2 stay positive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Heya darkmaster!Thanx for ur reply!
    Sorry but i couldnt help noticin that ur from southwest,hope you dont mind me askin but where bouts in southwest u from?Cos im from Cornwall,i know southwest is pretty big-dont worry im not that thick!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi lisa, look u still young and u still ahve u'r time to find one, and if u r not searching for hwat older men searchin for <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ,than its better for u at this stage to find a girl from your age ,to be your real friend, and latter when u wnat the other things u can look for a boy friend, and maybe at that time u will not need to look for him , maybe he will be looking for u, and maybe u will have one at that time... <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey don't worry about it. Your young... I had a boyfriend at 13, but since then i hadn't had a real serious one till i was 22. Believe me you discover yourself as you get older and you'll know what you really want. Just wait and go ut and have fun, when it happens it'll happen. When i met my ex, it was the last thing on my mind. I was going out having fun at clubs, and i told everyone i soooo don't want a boyfriend. Then it just happened.
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