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am i being used for sex
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Hi i met this guy over the net a month ago and he was quite hot. The first date was cool going around london and stuff like that. But we've only seen each other twice and for some reason he seems really busy all the time, the 1st date ( i know i shoudnt have) I went to his and nothing happen we just talked and the 2nd he came to mine and told me all about his sexual history and sex positions he liked but we didnt do anything. He also finds kissing to personal but wants to know when we will have sex, lastly he txt me saying he enjoyed ahnging out with me but wasnt ready for a kiss, so is seeing other girls?
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Agreed. That is TOO wierd that he spent half your second date talking about sex positions and asking for sex, yet he won't even kiss you...
Her bf now, cheated on his gf of the time with her. He would have sex and do other stuff, but not kiss, because that was "too personal" and "cheating".
Hmm... yeahhh... :chin:
Roger that.
Kinda reminds me of Pretty Woman. Doesn't she have a "no kissing" rule, as it's too intimate?
What does this no kissing but sex is okay really mean? ... Is it shyness?
I have to say I agree with him in a way. But it's difficult to explain why and I don't want to be flamed so I might just stay quiet (not agreeing with him that its ok to cheap by having sex, just that kissing is more personal)
it is more personal in a way, like for example if you and your girlfriend had a threesome with another bloke, you'd proberly smack him if he started kissing her, yet you wudnt mind him ramming his cock in her mouth while you take her from behind... just an example.
but this is far to weird, i cant imagine what is on his mind other than sex if hes acting like this and saying kissing is too personal but sex is ok
...but what goes around comes around they say lol, yea... she got me back *pretty* badly. (not maliciously, but just, anyway!).
Cheating is wrong guys and girls, don't do it. Do you love someone? Then stick with them, and rather than trusting your own judgement, think if you would be jealous if it was your partner doing such things. I found out that I was very very jealous, I doubt I'd ever cheat in a relationship these days, but have to say that I don't want to start a relationship so much.
Another shit ranty post from me. What's wrong with me today!
Maybe that's it!