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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok even though im in a relationship right now, i still have feeling for my ex. there is the lil bytch ho at school named brittney jonshon and she totally messed up my last relationship with flirting and talking to my ex, ruining my chances of getting back with him. my ex's little brother Dustin told me earlier today that my ex said he was gonna go out with her.

my ex knows how much i hate this girl, and he must WANT to see her get her a$$ kicked, because thats what i feel like doing right now. i didnt get to do it before, because she punked out and got a ride to school and then told the vice principal about what happened that same day.

what should i do cause im so pissed off right now. <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You have no rights over your ex-bf...He can date who he wants. You obviously dont care enough for him because you are in another relationship.

    Kick her ass if you want but i guarantee that your ex wont thank you for it and any chances you had with him will be up in smoke.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Woah calm down! You have no right what-so-ever to kick this girls ass. You're in a relationship, so you can't go out with anyone else anyway. Also, think about the person you're in this relationship with, how would he feel if he found out about this? Even if you were single, it's your ex's choice who to go out with...you can't go all moody and threaten to kick peoples arses when you don't get your way.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so even though she messed up my relationship, yall say i shouldnt do nothin? yeah mmm-hmm ok. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How did she mess it up? Either you or him messed it up, then she just stepped in when he was free...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PKsGurl:
    <STRONG>so even though she messed up my relationship, yall say i shouldnt do nothin? yeah mmm-hmm ok. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    That aint the reason you just gave for wanting to beat her up....If she split you two up then you shoulda kicked her ass back then.

    Youre just jealous now...you are in the wrong if you beat her ass now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The way I understood it is, she talked and flirted with your ex, you got jealous, argued, and split up?

    Correct me if I'm wrong...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    of course im upset and jealous, he may be my ex but im completely over him yet. i thought i was but im not. i didnt get to fight her before, because she saw me at the bus stop and got a ride to school cause she punked out.

    he claimed he wanted to be friends, but then he goes and tries to hook up with the girl i dont like. how messed up is that. my ex hates my best friend Eric, but i didnt go out with him, cause everyone would think i was trying to make him jealous. everyone knows my ex doesnt like my best friend.

    my ex dumped me, and he never talked to me about it. he just did. and i wanted to ask him why, but then here comes brittney being a damn flirt and talking to him and ruining my chances of fixing things. he talked to HER about what happened, but he couldnt talk to me. why that is is beyond me. <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What, so your ex can't go out with people becuase you don't like them? Will he have to get your permission when he decides to go out with other people?

    Oh, and if he thought there was a chance of fixing things, he would have talked to you about it then, instead of dumping you...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kiezo:
    <STRONG>What, so your ex can't go out with people becuase you don't like them? Will he have to get your permission when he decides to go out with other people?

    Oh, and if he thought there was a chance of fixing things, he would have talked to you about it then, instead of dumping you...</STRONG>

    its not my fault or his fault that i dont like her, its her own damn fault. she shouldnt have jumped in when the relationship wasnt over yet. its only her i dont like. if i was another girl from outside, so what no biggie.

    but my ex knows how mad i get, and if he likes this girl so much, then he needs to protect her. he knows im out to get her and hes not doing anything about it actually. i mean if someone was out to get ur bf/gf, wouldnt u do something to keep them from getting hurt? and hes not doing that. and he didnt do anything when i went after her the 1st time.

    he told me that he didnt like her, that his frined Curry did.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im sorry you guys

    i didnt mean to be such a violent bytch to yall.

    im still incredibly hurt by everything, and i still have feelings for him. i know im supposed to be, but this was a recent breakup. even though i went thru BS with him, i loved him, even though he lied to me.

    he just so happens to be a very good liar, and he always gets outta trouble, hes a p*thead, hes gonna repeat te 10th grade...even though all this, hes funny, he seems to be caring, and he can be very mature when he wants to be.

    he told me he was sorry that he lied, and he thought he was the wrong guy for me, and that i would find a guy who would treat me better. but i didnt want to find another one, i told him he could be better and i would help him. i was crying and he was holding me telling me not to cry, and i kept telling him i was sorry and that i loved him.

    i really thought we were strong enough to make it through anything, but i guess not <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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