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why am i feeling like this?
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hey everyone.
things are going really well between Lucy and her boyfriend at the moment. She really likes him and he really likes her.
The thing is, when i see them together, it kills me. I dont know why i feel like this, i know i shouldnt, i should be really happy for her - which i am, i am so glad she's found someone.
But, i still feel this way, i know nothing would ever have happened between us, but it hurts when i see them together.
i went through this with my ex, whenever i heard about her boyfriend(s). i dont want to go through this again.
sorry this is a mess of a post, im just really confused.
Im really happy for her, im so glad she's found someone who she is happy with, but it hurts me.
oh.... dont say things like "talk to her", coz i cant/wont. i wont do anything that might cause any more problems between us or that might cause problems between her and her bf.
things are going really well between Lucy and her boyfriend at the moment. She really likes him and he really likes her.
The thing is, when i see them together, it kills me. I dont know why i feel like this, i know i shouldnt, i should be really happy for her - which i am, i am so glad she's found someone.
But, i still feel this way, i know nothing would ever have happened between us, but it hurts when i see them together.
i went through this with my ex, whenever i heard about her boyfriend(s). i dont want to go through this again.
sorry this is a mess of a post, im just really confused.
Im really happy for her, im so glad she's found someone who she is happy with, but it hurts me.
oh.... dont say things like "talk to her", coz i cant/wont. i wont do anything that might cause any more problems between us or that might cause problems between her and her bf.
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Small comfort now, while you're hurting, but one day you'll find someone who will deserve that kind of love and who will care as much about your happiness.
Chin up. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
i do really care for her, and im sooo glad shes found someone. but it just really hurts.
she doesnt know, and im not going to tell her.
right.... next point:
her boyfriend is in france at the moment on a school exchange, and shes been really depressed coz she misses him so much. shes depressed coz hes not around at the moment.
she must really like him if she misses him so much when they've only been going out for about 3 weeks.
here i go again! i hate having these feelings!!!!