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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Evening

Slightly narked at the moment.

Got a text from the love interest in my life asking how I am etc, but was busy today so told her ill ring later on. I kind of knew in the back of my mind that she wouldnt pick up, oh lo and behold she didnt.

I mean why contact me, ask questions then dont pick up when i ring them. Wasting my time she is. Shes done it before, so lets see what excuse she says now.

Why do people waste time by playing these stupid mind games. Got better things to do, like learn scales!

Anyway slightly better.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maybe she's just a bit shy to speak on the phone
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe she doesn't fancy you and doesn't care to take your calls?
    Or she may not enjoy speaking on the phone. I prefer to text people (friends too, not just my "love interests") and see how they're doing.

    Busy socialising/out/napping. Chill man, why not just reply in text form then you're more likely to get a response.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    she's probably pissed off 'cause you dared to be too busy for her.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    she prob was busy or alseep ........have you asked her??

    a lot of girls go off and do other things and forget what there doing.........maybe she was watching tv. you gotta remember the world doesnt stop just for you... she prob thought she was being thoughtful texting and then got busy and did something else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Has it occured to you that she has more important things to do than wait around for you to call her? Of course, it's different if you said to her: 'I will phone you at 6pm, if that's alright with you?' and she answered 'yes'.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sofie wrote:
    Has it occured to you that she has more important things to do than wait around for you to call her? Of course, it's different if you said to her: 'I will phone you at 6pm, if that's alright with you?' and she answered 'yes'.
    yes i did say if it would be ok to call later, to which she replied, fine. hence the reason i was cheesed of. looking at my first post i know it isnt clear. I suppose what im trying to say is i cannot be arsed with them anymore as Ive said earlier she done it before a few times, saying its fine, then oh conveniently they're no where to be seen. maybe im a sucker for punishment or she does it to boost her ego, either way i cant be bothered with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    are you sure she is doing this just to annoy you??? or do you just feel like she is?
    if your that mad about it and its that bad ......why dont you talk to her about it?
    sounds like you just cant be bothered to even try and find out whats wrong.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "them"?

    So are you generalising all women now? :eek2:
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