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BillieTheBot
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Hmm i have a problem which is really shallow and i feel bad.
I really like someone, but the problem is i'm having doubts about the whole thing because he isn't well particularly good looking. Which i know sounds bad, but i can't bring myself to go out with him and don't want my mates seeing. I know it's something wrong with me, and that i should just not be so shallow, especially at my age. I feel really tight because i have such a laugh with him an stuff, but then i start to think about going out with him and i feel like i like him less.
I know theres no real advice apart from stop being such a shallow bitch but theres a part of me saying to not bother with him and find someone better (whatever that is!), but theres another bit thats saying to fuck what people think and to go for it.
Not sure what i was hoping to get from posting this but you never know.
I really like someone, but the problem is i'm having doubts about the whole thing because he isn't well particularly good looking. Which i know sounds bad, but i can't bring myself to go out with him and don't want my mates seeing. I know it's something wrong with me, and that i should just not be so shallow, especially at my age. I feel really tight because i have such a laugh with him an stuff, but then i start to think about going out with him and i feel like i like him less.
I know theres no real advice apart from stop being such a shallow bitch but theres a part of me saying to not bother with him and find someone better (whatever that is!), but theres another bit thats saying to fuck what people think and to go for it.
Not sure what i was hoping to get from posting this but you never know.
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Feelings about someones looks can change according to how much you actually like someone as a person.
Dont go out with him though if youre embarrassed about being seen with him. Thats not really fair on him.
To me, if you like someone they are normally more good looking to you the more you like them, even if they aren't drop dead gorgeous.
when you get to know someone and have fun with them then they become more attractive to you but if this isn't happening then you cant force yourself to like him nor should you feel guilty about it. i have to say that when i have gone out with guys who i don't think are as attractive as my normal type then i often find myself fancying other guys and letting lust get the better of me which obviously is not fair on him.