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Ok I did a really stupid thing

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
well I slept with him, ok u don't know who I'm talking about right I made another post about this but anyway OK here goes

well I have this guy friend who wanted to have a just sex relationship which I later figured out that wasn't really something I could deal with right now so I told him I just wanted to be friends so he was atlittle dissapointed but he said if thats what I really want then he's ok with it to

So everything was great for a while then saturday night I went to his house to watch a movie like about 10 mins in the movie I was already sleeping on him then at 15 mins into the movie we were kissing, well we ended up having sex ok here's the problem

It was the absolutlly best sex anyway I left right after have not talked to him since
I really did enjoy it didn't realize how sexually frusterated till now
but now I have no idea what to tell him now or what I want to do now what do u guys think

the messes I get myself into
I'm like a bird I'll only fly away. I don't know where my home is, I don't know where my soul is.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i reckon u shud tell him that u want more... or just go round there again, maybe something will happen
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know something will happen I just don't know if I want it to happen
    I don't regret what I did If I had to do over then I would not change a thing about that night. but I don't know if I want to continue doing it I mean it would be wrong to continue just sleeping with him wouldn't it?
    I'm like a bird I'll only fly away. I don't know where my home is, I don't know where my soul is.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you wanted this and enjoyed it, how is it exactly a stupid thing?

    i know that being in causal relationship is not always the best thing for anyone, but if you're enjoying it and there are no strings attached, that's not exactly a bad thing.

    like drifter said, give it a try and when ur ready to graduate into a more serious relationship, the beauty of this situation is you won't have trouble leaving it.

    just be careful and safe and don't mistake sex for love and you should be fine.

    good luck kitty.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go around there again, see what happens. If u get to the stage where sex is likely, then u have to decide what you want.
    If the sex is amazing and you don't seem to regret what happened, go ahead and fuck him senseless. Might aswell release a bit of that frustration, it`ll be good for both of you.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    talyn, PLEASE dont let there be more. the situation has progressed sooooo far beyond how it was in april, i can tell you that. look, please will you just cast your eyes to the last post made, i know theyre little numbers, but the middle one, says which month it was posted in. if the last post was in a month other than the current one (aside from if its the end, potential smartarses <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">) and its something like this, then PLEASE restrain yourself from posting. and maybe take a look at the thread entitled "FUDGE" in sex...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the fact is, this is annoying because the topic is dead. the person who asked for help has obviously got what they need and the problem has been sorted, and there is just simply no need to post extra advice.

    argh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thank u for the advice Talyn, alittle late tho. It just takes me alot of effort to block the stupid stuff i do out my head. so plz check the dates is all i'm asking anyway Welcome to The Site <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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