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Going out of my minddd.
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Posted several threads around this place about the same guy before.
Seeing each other on n off for like a year, blahblahblah.
Started going with each other/seeing each other again like a month ago - things were good. We went out one night, I thought it went great, then I just got the impression he was being funny with me, like I'd done something wrong?
Anyway, went out the other night and saw him and his mates - he was okay with me then, kissed me a few times but other than that I never really saw him again. Went out yesterday night and again he was out - except this time when I said hello he just nods at me n looks away in disgust!
My friends and his were stood about, he wouldnt even look at me, so I buggered off to the toilet, came back and I was a bit upset - my friend realised this, took me to one side and hugged me, so I was crying like a baby. He realised this, took me outside - dsicovered he was being weird with me cos I apparently was being weird with him the night before. Sorted things out I thought, then never saw him again that night and he promised to take me home, etc.
I just dunno where I stand. He's really difficult to talk to about stuff like this, I've gathered. I just dont know?! ARGH. I'm just crazy bout the guy, which makes me feel really stupid right now, cos I shouldnt be. :banghead:
Seeing each other on n off for like a year, blahblahblah.
Started going with each other/seeing each other again like a month ago - things were good. We went out one night, I thought it went great, then I just got the impression he was being funny with me, like I'd done something wrong?
Anyway, went out the other night and saw him and his mates - he was okay with me then, kissed me a few times but other than that I never really saw him again. Went out yesterday night and again he was out - except this time when I said hello he just nods at me n looks away in disgust!
My friends and his were stood about, he wouldnt even look at me, so I buggered off to the toilet, came back and I was a bit upset - my friend realised this, took me to one side and hugged me, so I was crying like a baby. He realised this, took me outside - dsicovered he was being weird with me cos I apparently was being weird with him the night before. Sorted things out I thought, then never saw him again that night and he promised to take me home, etc.
I just dunno where I stand. He's really difficult to talk to about stuff like this, I've gathered. I just dont know?! ARGH. I'm just crazy bout the guy, which makes me feel really stupid right now, cos I shouldnt be. :banghead:
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if anyone can offer me any sort of advice i would be really really appreciative..
its sending me crazy
You're only damaging yourself if you stick by it time and again long after it's obvious that nothing will change.