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im so mesd up i need help

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
i jus read the message about lack of confidence, i feel the same mayb worse!

i get depressed a lot and im always parranoid about evrythin.the stupid thing is i no i dont have much 2get depresd about and lots of people say how pretty i am.

i dont no how 2 take it wen boys like me and i never hav relationships.i have only bin out with 1 boy and this was 2 years ago!

please help!im getting worse n worse. i dont even feel confident enough 2 talk 2 people sumtimes which is strange coz of my personality overall is quite bubbly.

has any1 ever felt this way?

im such a stupid teenager

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey jbaby!
    Calm down chic, it'll be okay. Why do you get paranoid? Has something happened to make you feel like this?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thank u 4 replyin 2 my msg it really means a lot.

    nothin has really hapnd i spose its bcoz of goin so long wivout a boyfriend.

    i get paranoid about meetin new people and wot they think of me.

    i want a bf but wen i get the chance i feel like y is he interested in me??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay, i'm slightly confused. You're a pretty girl with a bubbly personality! You should be fine. When i'm meeting new people, i don't like to be introduced to a big crowd, i prefer talking to people in groups of 3 or 4, it's easier and more relaxed that way.
    My advice is, go out with your friends as much as possible, you will meet other people eventually.
    If your mates find it easy to talk to guys etc, then they can start the conversation, and you can join in. don't be afraid to talk and meet new people, lifes too short! Enjoy it, you're still young, you have loads of time! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey I know how you feel, I suffer from paranoia pretty badly ( I see a shrink)! I know its not easy, over the past couple of years I have got better.

    Maybe you should speak to your friends about it so they can help put your mind at rest, and maybe help you meet new people.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    All i can offer is a hug and some sympathy for you
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey hon! I know pretty much how u feel,
    and i know the hardest thing is believing what people tell you: i.e. ' you're pretty'
    u have to convince yourself that nobody would lie to you. Why would ppl bother sayin those things if they weren't true.
    Take compliments, say 'thanku', believe in yourself, and try not to put yourself down.
    Good luck
    xxxlove Sxxx
    No man is worth your tears, and the one who is wont make you cry.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You sound like you've got depression. Write down all you're feelings and emotions. It helps get things out of you're system and you'll feel easier when you know you're not alone and other people have similar feelings. good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I feel the same as you jbaby, and no, your not a stupid teenager. If you ever find answers, come back n tell me! :-)

    What im trying to do is go out more, with my mates n get to know them better and then who knows what will come about.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I feel the same as you jbaby, and no, your not a stupid teenager. If you ever find answers, come back n tell me! :-)

    What im trying to do is go out more, with my mates n get to know them better and then who knows what will come about.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I didn't think it had been that long since u'd had a gf lordofchaos.

    No man is worth your tears, and the one who is wont make you cry.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me n my gf stopped going out about a month ago. She told me some things i needed to know about myself. She didn't really believe my when i told her how gorg she was...hopefully she will soon. She's moved on, she would have done no matter what i could have said, but I suppose that it was right. Time to work on ones out-goingness then.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jbaby, you're not the only one feeling like this. I feel the same as you do.

    Just about over two years ago, I broke up with a girl that I was in love with (long distance relationship, Birmingham-Machester). It didn't work out right at all. Everything was great before the break up, I was a really confident, out going guy, as if I had all the time in the world, everything was within my control...etc.

    Things turned downhill right after the break up, depression, commit suicide (which didn't work out right of course). So, I'm still here, living a day at a time...enough of that.

    A lack of confidence and being down happens to everyone from time to time. What we all have to learn is to get over it and move on, and never stay at the bottom of the hill for too long.

    I'm still working on the confident and out going part of myself, which I've lost a while ago...I'm sure I'll find it again some day, and so will you. You just have to notice how unique and important you are.

    Take care.
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