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Im stuck, Im hopeless what do i do about this girl

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
oooooo my go where do i start?????

There is this girl that i am friends with, we are not best friends but friends, I like her sooooooooooooo much its annoying me that Im so pathetic I cant say anything to her or anyone else.
I aint the best looking of lads but surely that isnt everything.

ahhhhhhhhhhh what do i do, i feel awkward.
I want to tell her I fancy her but if she doesnt fancy me than I want to stay friends as we where but I am worried that we will always feel awkward around each other if we dont start going out together.

aaaaaaaahhhhhh its annoying me so much its untrue, i need help!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont fret, calm down. If you really like this girl then you should tell her, and if she is your met then she will let you know the truth, secretly she might like you. And if she is aa good of a friend as you say, then even if she doesn't feel the same way, she will go back to being your friend the way it was before, and it won't feel awkward!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok ill tell her, but im scared to tell her, what do I say and when. We talk over the internet quite a bit aswell but is it better to say it to her face.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go for it, when you are on your death bed you will regret the thing you didn't do more than the things you did ! good luck
    drugs may be the road to nowhere, but at least there the scenic route
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont go plunging in telling her that you love her, but do find out what she feels. Maybne at first you could try steering the conversation towards who she fancies, how she feels about a boyfriend, and see how she feels about you. She might fancy you loads but be shy, and even if she doesnt you wont regret it and if shes a good mate shell still be a friend to you.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tell her i was in exactley the same situation only she told me first wat have you really got to lose and if its a good friendship it wont be lost

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