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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Hi. Ive got a slight boy problem. Well this lad i really like has asked me out, but i havevn't given him an answer yet. Now ive found out that this other lad likes me aswel. Now im stuck what to do, because if i go out with lad that has asked me out already im gonna feel guilty bout the other lad. But the one who has already asked me out, Ive Liked 4 AGES!!! What shall I do???
help!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do what feels right...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea I agree with liberty...or alternativly go out with them both and take em both for a ride lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">. I always see to get cheated on so from now on if two boys wanna go out with me I think Ill just go with both of em (but I doubt Ill get the chance anyway!). That way u dont have to choose and u can cheat on them before they do it to u.

    By the way...this is a joke so no screwing at me about it people please!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok here's a plan really concentrate on your problem for about half an hour then try and think about absolutely nothing and one of the guys will automatically spring to mind whether you want it to or not (guaranteed every time) go out with the one you don't think about (whenever you try and think about nothing your brain automatically thinks about the thing you want to think about least- in your case that would be which guy you're going to have to turn down so the guy you don't think about will be the guy you want most.)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go oit with the 1 u liked for ages..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sexy female:
    Hi. Ive got a slight boy problem. Well this lad i really like has asked me out, but i havevn't given him an answer yet. Now ive found out that this other lad likes me aswel. Now im stuck what to do, because if i go out with lad that has asked me out already im gonna feel guilty bout the other lad. But the one who has already asked me out, Ive Liked 4 AGES!!! What shall I do???
    help!


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by j9j9:
    Sometimes you have to just be selfish, don't worry about their feelings, just do what you want.

    J9

    Yup, you're going to have make a decision or you'll piss both of them off and then it's you that'll be hurt, so just go with the person you think you'll enjoy the most.

    [This message has been edited by JB (edited 04-12-2000).]
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Malkav, that was an extraordinarily complicated method!! to be honest, you should just go out with the one youve always liked, you know you want to. you'll only be unhappy if you went out with the second guy you dont like as much just to spare his feelings. believe me, im sure hell get over it, justdont tell him you wont go out with him in a heartless way! (which im sure you wont). happy dating!
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