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how about falling
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in love on the net, with smb u don't know, u didn't see. I think it's possible. But is that normal?
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Whats to say you're not talking to an acne-ridden 9 year old, or a dirty person aged 82?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif">
I think thats a bit harsh. I think its possible to have feelings for someone, not nessesaraly love but never the less. As for it being normal or not.....Well what is "NORMAL"? I dont think there is a normal or not normal just maybe different!
Anyway there's no such thing as 'normal'
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No man is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry.
I think there will always be the risk that you're talking to an 8 year old or an 80 year old, but you can normally tell when someone's lying about their life fairly early on in the "relationship".
I think you can get a lot closer in some ways to people you meet over the net. There are some things I say to people on MSN messenger which I could never say in real life, but the fact I'm just on a computer rather than talking to someone means I'm less nervous. So from that perspective you can actually make far stronger bonds with internet people.
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My point is if u can fall in love with someone on the net without seeing him/her at all.
work seriously damages health
The person I have a sort of thing with now, I met on the internet. Although it's mostly in 'real life' that we see each other at the moment (he lives at the end of my road now!) and most of the stuff I've done has been in person, to begin with it was just like- ICQ and email type thing. It took meeting him to realise what I felt for him, but I think it all came about over the internet.
Have you ever confused a dream with life?