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Squirming.....help!
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Everytime my boyfriend rubs my clit i cant help but wiggle and i have to make him stop even though im really enjoying it. How can i stop this from happening?
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Well you could just not let your bf play with your clit ?
.....Or show him how you do it yourself if you don't like the 'wiggles'? assuming you don't wiggle when you do it yourself? (assuming you do it to yourself?)
It's REALLY FUCKING ANNOYING.
I'd just tell him to slow down a bit, be a bit more gentle and shiz.
but have no helpful advice.
So yeah, as with all things sexual, communication is key -- you need to tell him that it's too intense for you before he potentially gets a complex about you stopping him, it might also help if you relax and just let yourself experience it. As I've always found if I start thinking about whether I'm going to come or not I rarely will, though if it's physically too much then no amount of "mind over matter" thinking is going to make a difference. I know you may think it's "unsexy" or not conducive to the mood to direct him and talk to him during the act, but being sexually frustrated is even more of a moodbreaker. Or you could always use the man's method and push his head down there, it may give you a more desirable effect
Can you get yourself off by, er, flicking the bean (to coin a disgusting phrase)?
I remember finding direct contact pretty uncomfortable when I first started having sex, but its weird - maybe it gets desensitised over time or something, cos it feels great nowadays :thumb:
Although saying that, it still happens every now and again when I haven't had it in a bit
Although saying that, it still happens every now and again when I haven't had it in a bit
Yeah, I guess after some time you will just get used to it, tell him to make it slow and gentle, like... if you want to smear some cream on a, lets say mosquito bite, you just make a circular motion gracing the surface of your skin. Of course a poking-like-to-check-if-someone-is-still-alive-method will be a bit intenser.
next time im getting some 'clit action' im so saying this to my boyfriend, in a seductive sexy voice "do it like your rubbing cream into a mosquito bite :flirt: "
Hell, that conveys the message super-easy, there won't be anymore questions open, and it's funny too.
You killed 3 birds, with one stone.
bonus point if you commence round 2 with, "now poke it like to check on a motionless animal."
Last but not least, the end-spurt, "tap it, like you tap 'high kick' when playing Tekken."
Wow, I should write a book.
Good luck anyway :thumb:
I know what you mean and it was kind of what I kind of described. Use the labia majora!
sorry if that's too much detail but I likes to share.
I cant BELIEVE you sometimes