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I know it's pretty childish but...
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I recently split with my ex after things crumbled and he ended up hitting me. That I've dealt with and I'm having a wicked time without him.
But basically, I know I shouldn't REALLY care, but I believe he's gotten together with this girl who I knew fancied him for the whole time we were together and was fake and two-faced to me, tried to influence me to split up with him and talking shit when I wasn't sober, pretended to consol me after an issue but was plotting the whole time to go after him. Anyway that's fine I don't mind but the two of them seem to be engaging in some very public (and childish) mockery of me on the internet.
Now I consider myself to be a mature and responsible person. I'm level headed but I'm furious about this, not only is it immature and embarrassing but it's being done right in front of my nose on those stupid profile sites. I know that everybody that is seeing it is probably thinking "blugh how childish" but for them to be drawing pictures of me dead, naked (with a lot of extra weight on I may add!!!) and saying things like "I tell lies" and "I make things up about my boyfriend hitting me to make up for my own self doubt and issues" I get pissed. I mean it's not enough that a relationship that I was deeply in love for the majority was ruined so embarrasingly but to be accused of being a liar and in such a childish way.
I know it would be immature to somehow get my revenge but I really truly believe that they shouldn't be allowed to get away with this. Any ideas on some very subtle, very indirect (so thus it can't get back to me!!) revenge.
It would be greatly appreciated. Lol....if only to hear the ideas and imagine it....:)
But basically, I know I shouldn't REALLY care, but I believe he's gotten together with this girl who I knew fancied him for the whole time we were together and was fake and two-faced to me, tried to influence me to split up with him and talking shit when I wasn't sober, pretended to consol me after an issue but was plotting the whole time to go after him. Anyway that's fine I don't mind but the two of them seem to be engaging in some very public (and childish) mockery of me on the internet.
Now I consider myself to be a mature and responsible person. I'm level headed but I'm furious about this, not only is it immature and embarrassing but it's being done right in front of my nose on those stupid profile sites. I know that everybody that is seeing it is probably thinking "blugh how childish" but for them to be drawing pictures of me dead, naked (with a lot of extra weight on I may add!!!) and saying things like "I tell lies" and "I make things up about my boyfriend hitting me to make up for my own self doubt and issues" I get pissed. I mean it's not enough that a relationship that I was deeply in love for the majority was ruined so embarrasingly but to be accused of being a liar and in such a childish way.
I know it would be immature to somehow get my revenge but I really truly believe that they shouldn't be allowed to get away with this. Any ideas on some very subtle, very indirect (so thus it can't get back to me!!) revenge.
It would be greatly appreciated. Lol....if only to hear the ideas and imagine it....:)
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Though I must say it'd be pretty funny to see him dragged out of his house into a meat wagon......*giggles*
Hmmm...that's not bad. But I want it to be more...personal. Whilst being a bit more distanced.
I like that.
So what ? It was a sort of ammicable split and then he starts spouting out this crap that she's saying he hit her to excuse the break when he actually did. Fuck him, he's a twat.
So she is lowering herself to his level. I wouldn't say it was an ammicable split for the fact that he hit her! been there but worse!
She should ignore them.
One bloke used me and gave me an s.t.i and he loved his army career, but was using a false name.... so off to army careers, told them and he got kicked out and god did i feel good... (even though he said he would kill anyone that fucked it up lol i'm still here)
I got my revenge indirectly earlier though. I turned on the TV and found they were doing a sort of watchdog report that the course that he took out a loan for and paid for is actually a big fraud.
What goes around comes around etc etc