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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
want some tips for shokin my boyfriend in bed tonight! something he wont expect and dont say anything to do with his ass lol

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try some S&M?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bring another girl:naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bondage?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, in all seriousness now it depends on how 'shocking' you want to go.
    if you just want to surprise him nicely then i know a few easy enough BJ tips.
    then theres light bondage and a bit of roleplay, cant fail with some sexy new undies/corset/suspenders
    up another level is more hardcore bondage and BDSM for which the leathers are always good;)
    if you like to go really different then invite other people in or do it somewhere different( tumble-drier gives good vibrations for example) or maybe outside? you can also find out about BDSM parties you can go to with your boyfriend, just make sure you set some 'rules' about who's dominant/submissive etc etc.
    then you could always add in the standard food/toys/ sweet delicious things to eat off eachother.
    just use your imagination!
    :naughty::naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    want some tips for shokin my boyfriend in bed tonight!
    Another man under the covers. :D :shocking:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol:
    HIT wrote:
    Another man under the covers. :D :shocking:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, in all seriousness now it depends on how 'shocking' you want to go.
    if you just want to surprise him nicely then i know a few easy enough BJ tips.
    then theres light bondage and a bit of roleplay, cant fail with some sexy new undies/corset/suspenders
    up another level is more hardcore bondage and BDSM for which the leathers are always good;)
    if you like to go really different then invite other people in or do it somewhere different( tumble-drier gives good vibrations for example) or maybe outside? you can also find out about BDSM parties you can go to with your boyfriend, just make sure you set some 'rules' about who's dominant/submissive etc etc.
    then you could always add in the standard food/toys/ sweet delicious things to eat off eachother.
    just use your imagination!
    :naughty::naughty:

    fuck... you are 16 years old. I played with matchbox cars and my green stuffed dimetrodon toy called Nigel at that age.... or smth, can't remember clearly.
    What is our youth coming to.
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    smitherzsmitherz Posts: 968 Part of The Mix Family
    StrubbleS wrote:
    fuck... you are 16 years old. I played with matchbox cars and my green stuffed dimetrodon toy called Nigel at that age.... or smth, can't remember clearly.
    What is our youth coming to.

    Yeah i see your point. At 16 sex is a new thing so you shouldn't be wanting to explore that drastically until your a little older. At 16 just bog standard sex was exciting enough for me :crazyeyes
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We're all different; some people might say it's best to get it out of your system so you can just enjoy missionary once a month when you're that little bit older, more tired and have to go to work in the morning :p

    Bit of scat play will certainly do the trick if it's shock value you're after. Just make sure you eat a big bowl of bran flakes to bulk it out, will save the sheets ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have a look in Anne Summers, an outrageous costume might do the trick.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    smitherz wrote:
    Yeah i see your point. At 16 sex is a new thing so you shouldn't be wanting to explore that drastically until your a little older. At 16 just bog standard sex was exciting enough for me :crazyeyes

    leather, whips and chains and bdsm with 16 :)

    Well, guess I was an old fashioned lad.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote:
    leather, whips and chains and bdsm with 16 :)

    Well, guess I was an old fashioned lad.


    if thats what i told my friends i was into at 16 i would get laughed at. Yet i had more important things on my mind that just matchbox toys
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote:
    fuck... you are 16 years old. I played with matchbox cars and my green stuffed dimetrodon toy called Nigel at that age.... or smth, can't remember clearly.
    What is our youth coming to.


    hmm yeah you could say that i hear where youre cumin from. ive never actually been to a BDSM party myself as i am only 16 but will do in the future. i dont think youre sexual experimentation should be limited with age to be honest; im young and this is the time to explore( as long as its safely).. and then i'll know what i really like when im older. i say dont knock it til youve tried it!:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmm yeah you could say that i hear where youre cumin from. ive never actually been to a BDSM party myself as i am only 16 but will do in the future. i dont think youre sexual experimentation should be limited with age to be honest; im young and this is the time to explore( as long as its safely).. and then i'll know what i really like when im older. i say dont knock it til youve tried it!:p

    yeah, that's totally my opinion, but I passed my sweet sixteen a couple of fortnights already.

    Everythings going so fast in modern society. If you keep up with that rate, be prepared for your midlife crisis with 22 :p
    if thats what i told my friends i was into at 16 i would get laughed at. Yet i had more important things on my mind that just matchbox toys

    I was kidding in an exaggerating way. I wasn't a virgin with 16 anymore myself, but.... yeah, you know.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bring another girl:naughty:

    Better still, for shock value, it would have to be "bring another bloke" :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote:
    Bit of scat play will certainly do the trick if it's shock value you're after. Just make sure you eat a big bowl of bran flakes to bulk it out, will save the sheets ;)
    :lol: but be careful if youve been on iron tablets as it makes it quite difficult to go.
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