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Taking Risks

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I normally play it safe in life - but today I took a huge risk (don't really want to say what it was - it was just career related) and failed, but once I got home I kinda felt empowered cos I took the risk

I felt at least I didn't left life walk by without taking a chance for something better ..

So what risks have you taken lately and did they pay off and if so or not - how did you feel afterwards?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The risk i just took .. trying some of my mums homemade extra hot chilli sauce .. how do i feel? My mouth is fucking burning!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I take risks that I don't see as risks at the time, and I think back and I think fucking hell can't believe I did that.

    I usually am quite sensible though, it's only really like when it comes to girls and feelings and shit I'll take a risk, I always listen to heart over head which doesn't do me many favours in the long run.
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    Indrid ColdIndrid Cold Posts: 16,688 Skive's The Limit
    I can't remember the last time I took a risk... Unless it includes small ones, like risking losing in a game to get one more item etc.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think the last risk I took was inviting this fella I barely knew (but found attractive) to be my date for a friend's wedding. Yeah I know it sounds silly but it felt like a real risk at the time! Was great anyway, had an amazing time.. (and the guy is soooo hot :yum: )
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    depends what you classify as a risk.

    Yesterday i dyed some clothes. I had no idea if it would end up ruining them but it didnt.

    A few weeks ago i just decided to move to a city where i know pretty much nobody, with no job waiting for me. Its all working out fine so far

    In my second year of uni, instead of moving in with familiar people that i knew, i decided to risk it and move into a house with 3 people i had never met before. Im glad i did it, i met some great people.

    I also recently took the risk of going into a relationship with a friend. So far im glad, but i might say differently if we come to a sticky end.

    Last night i ate some chicken that was a bit pink, i couldnt not- it tasted so good! And its not made me ill so woo

    Hmm...cant really think of much else. Although it does feel like a risk each time i go out in my car, theres some real twats on the roads.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I tend to go for broke a lot of the time. Some people class me as reckless... but life is more interesting anyway. Last time I took a risk was the day before yesterday when I tried to kiss this girl. Failed, but at least I tried.

    Did you know, when gamling, there's a way to garuntee you'll win. Up the stakes every time. So, bet £5 and lose, you're £5 down. Bet £10... then if you win (assuming 50/50 chance) then you're £5 up. If you lose, you're £15 down. So bet £20! If you win, you're £5 up! According to the laws of probability, you gotta win sometime...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm well i move to spain for a year tonight,

    i havnt taken the risk yet but im gonna do so maybe that counts.

    Im shitting myself majorly
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Decided to travel Ireland for 8 days with 2 mates without any planning whatsoever i.e. where we were going or staying or if we had enough money. Paid off big time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Did you know, when gamling, there's a way to garuntee you'll win. Up the stakes every time. So, bet £5 and lose, you're £5 down. Bet £10... then if you win (assuming 50/50 chance) then you're £5 up. If you lose, you're £15 down. So bet £20! If you win, you're £5 up! According to the laws of probability, you gotta win sometime...

    lol interesting logic but i don't know of many gambling games that give 50/50 odds, think the casinos are one step ahead of you....

    as far as taking risks goes, i was never much of a risktaker in my youth, then got into drugs and took some very stupid risks which i luckily never got caught for, took some hash in my pocket back on the plane from dam once but going on previous stunts that was a minor risk lol......

    i think life is much more exciting if you take risks, ok maybe not illegal ones but most people play it safe and have pretty ordinary lives, but i want to have a fabulous life and i'm never gonna get there the safe way, for example i did a paraglide jump a few weeks back off the swiss alps where i had to throw myself off a mountain about 2km up, on the cable ride up and then looking down at the top i was like oh fuck what am i doing, but it was awesome in the end, memory will stay with me for life........as far as money goes i've just forked out £4k for a property mentorship program and taken out a £10k loan to finance the whole project, hopefully it will fast track me into real estate but i guess i will find out tomorrow........i don't think it's reckless though, it's a calculated risk, and there's a difference, doesn't mean i'm not shitting myself a little bit.....at the end of the day life's all about pushing your comfort boundaries, the only limits are in your mind and some people let it rule them, others push on to achieve great things, i know where i'm going.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol interesting logic but i don't know of many gambling games that give 50/50 odds

    It's a system played on the roulette wheel. Even placed bets (red/black, odd/even, high/low) There is a proper name for for this system though i can't remember it. Obviously it doesn't work as a. we'd all be millionaires and b.there wouldn't be any roulette wheels in casinos :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    melanie wrote:
    Hmm well i move to spain for a year tonight,

    i havnt taken the risk yet but im gonna do so maybe that counts.

    Im shitting myself majorly

    :hyper: Ooh, how exciting!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I took a risk eating a handfull of cheerios from an open baggie I left on my desk over the weekend. It was a bad decision. 0ther than that I'm not much of a risk taker. Very unrisky.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    melanie wrote:
    Hmm well i move to spain for a year tonight,

    i havnt taken the risk yet but im gonna do so maybe that counts.

    Im shitting myself majorly
    Wow, melanie, that's great! Are you going to work/study? :hyper:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, I went to a strange city for the weekend a montha go by myself.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Years ago I got so fed up with the way my life was, so I switched the country and I had all bridges burnt...
    Thankfully, it worked well! :yippe:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont take enough risks it fucks me off, i just cant do it sometimes.
    i keep being like 'right i'm gonna do this, dont care what my brain says, i'm gonna do it. then i don't'
    going to uni on saturday though, hopefully the whole life change will make it easier.:thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    According to the laws of probability, you gotta win sometime...


    I don't think those rules apply cos the first, 2nd or thrird events aren't related to each other. Just vcos you lose the first time or 2nd don't mean eventually you'll win.

    Maybe you're thinking of the laws of averages?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yea, something like that! :p

    im going to uni to do maths, honest..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't take risks

    i live a very safe and boring life :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    finally decided the next four years of my final, so is probably going to be one of the biggest decisions in my life
    and i'll probably never know if it was the best decision

    my favourite sport is all about risk, surfing, its the decision whether or not to take a wave that could kill you and gives you the biggest natural buzz when you finish and look back at waht you just did!
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