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A QUESTION FOR THE GUYS OUT THERE

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
How affected are guys by looks?
Do guys go for ultra-thin Sarah Michelle Gellar looking girls or maybe more curvey or larger boned girls?
What about glasses? Hair colour?
Just curious about what men think.
Oh yeah, what about personality?
IN THE BEGINNING THERE WAS THE WORD...

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like cute, sweet girls who are kind, friendly and don't smoke. I don't really mind about size as long as they are cuddly, I love cuddles.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dunno really... if ur gonna go out with them they have to have a good personallity most I guess, n they have to look ok... definatel not too thin, 'cuddly' as Harry says but not too big, some galsses can definately be a turn on, hair color dont really care about, but I definatley go for summing that's a bit out of the ordinary summing that makes a girl stand out from the crowd..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay - here I go...
    After years of training <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; I have refined my skills and tastes!

    Definately not for the ultra-thin girls, much prefer someone with some curves (although Sarah Michelle Gellar was a bad example!).
    Glasses: can make a girl look geeky or like someone from a porno but worn well they can be very sexy and certainly wouldn't effect the way I thought of someone.
    Hair colour: a shock of blonde hair gets me everytime and nice hair will attract me first everytime.
    Personality: I love a girl to be okay with herself, and know where she wants to be in life and take some of the decisions, (and to realise that painting her nails isn't THE most important thing in life!), having a laugh is a strong must and I'm spent!
    Love from the ChunkyMonkey
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Awwwwww! Aren't u all sweeties!

    What about feisty girls? We are cute and sweet too. A bit of attitude makes a person more interesting <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i prefer the thin girls and tall, i dont mind them with a bit of curves, but id prefer someone like sarah michelle gellar anytime.

    well about the glasses, it doesnt matter if a girl has them or not, it really doesnt affect their look (unless they have like REALLY big round ones.. or just plain strange ones, but normaly it doesnt affect the look)

    well hair colour doesnt really matter, unless they have like the colour of the rainbow dyed in, that kinda is a turn off


    but overall it really depends on their personality... i mean most girls are ok, its just the rteally bitchy ones that get on my nerves.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    n just to get rid of the nice image men r getting here... they have to be good at cooking, cleaning n most importantly sex!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    However much we might want to deny it or eradicate it in this modern global 21st century culture we have grown into, you can't get away from the fact that we ALL (girls included) judge, categorise, and form instant opinions of everyone we meet based solely on their appearance. Is this wrong? Yes. Do we all still do it? Yes. The enlightened among us have learned to suppress these baser instincts, but at some level it all comes down to attraction. In time, the attraction you feel for someone will be for their more spiritual (I hate that word) side, but to start with, especially in the 140 dB clubland, the eyes have it. Good thing is, though, that attraction always has and always will be a personal thing. The sexiest part of a woman is her brain.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well i always like something to grab on a girl. they are so much more cuddly. glasses can look really sexy if worn right and hair colour it dont really matter but brown hair is what i like. and they must be able to make u laugh and be easygoing otherwise instead of givingu head, they just give u a headache!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    while were on the subject, ive been meaning to post 4 ages about chest size, height, and bum size! lads can i have ur views on these please?
    thanx love helly
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To me the size of breasts isn't too big an issue, but their shape is.

    Bum. Not too fussed I guess. I know girls with wide-ish behinds but they look just fine in a swimsuit. it'sjust a case of being able to highlight your better points.

    Height. Not a big factor, but it's nice if things are in proportion. I short girl shouldn't have a huge bust, and tall girl shouldn't have tiny little breasts.

    I hope i'm not too fussy.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    More than a handful's a waste, got to be shorter than me (under 6' aren't hard to find!) and a nice round bum, not to flat!
    My girlfriend's 5'3" and I have no problems with that.
    Love from the ChunkyMonkey
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alrighty then heres wot i go 4.
    i dont care bout weight
    i dont care if there a stunner or not.
    along as im attracted to them but that doesnt matta if they have no personality whatso ever so i guess personalitys the most important what can i say i just like girls nothing specific why go on base lines So you cant experience your whole life to the fullest.
    CaTch Ya ON dA FLiPSiDe
    DaN


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    U been on the boar b4 as some1 else Dan??? kinda recognise the signature
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Daze:
    U been on the boar b4 as some1 else Dan??? kinda recognise the signature


    uh yeh hi ive been using dis for like a while its cool cauze u get to hear everyone elses opions on life. an im glad cauze i know im not the only one wid problems <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif">)
    laterz
    DaNiEL


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WOW, most of the guys I know just want sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Even though sex is great for guys and 4 girlies but it cant be the meaning to life can it? to screw as many people as possible thats utterly stupid. Wellll im different i guess since i know many people who disagree to wot i say.
    man i need a girlfriend lol ;o)

    DaN
    LiFeS KiNdA DuLL AnD KiNdA DrooL FuCk It aLL
    DrUgS ArE mY TooL
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wow lads, i'm impressed! We're all going very 'deep' here, also, as a girl who got contacts coz she thought glasses were a big turn off, my eyes have been opened! (Excuse the pun) Wish some of the blokes I knew were more like you lot!
    "some rarely touch it but it touches them often." Stanley, Streetcar Named Desire, Tennessee Williams
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i would just like to add that to first talk to anypne, whether that be a potential friend, well anyone you become to like in the sense of whatever love-platonic, filial, erotic etc YOU MUST BE ATTRACTED TO THEM IN ORDER TO TALK TO THEM!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to be honest, I don't really care about breast size.as long as they don't droop, and they ain't like footballs, I'll take 'em.at the end of the day, I like a girl that's gonna be faithful to me, and that I can have a decent conversation with.On the fiesty girl thing, It's ok if they're a faithful fiesty girl, but they're pretty damn hard to find.a lot of fiesty girls I have met have been like throwing a sausage through trafalgar square. They just have to be easy to get along with, and like a conversation.

    I must admit, when I am first gonna go up to a girl, I will take looks into account at first.It's just human nature.However, If I already know them, Looks don't mean shit to me, as long as they like a bit of fun, stay faithful, and know how to have a conversation. Personality goes a long way.

    I don't think anyone goes for certain personality traits-everyone's different, and it's how they manage themselves with the personality they have-they gotta be themselves, or they're not worth speaking to in the first place. I've met plenty of girls that would rather lie about their age, name etc. to be liked more and this is just stupid cos at the end of te day, It's bloody obvious they're lying.
    come on ladies, email me on gt2masta@hotmail.com !!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Lady Liberty

    Guys are affected by looks but here comes the good news - we all have different preferences... my are

    no stick-insects (I want a girl I can hug without fear of snapping her in two)

    Glasses - I actually like girls in specs (maybe cos I'm shallow and think they might actually be smart and able to hold a conversation about something other than 'does my arse look big in this')

    Hair colour - I'm not too bothered about hair colour.

    As for breast size - maybe something is wrong with me, maybe my mother smothered me with hers but big breast are a real turn off for me? Am I abnormal???

    Height - I like tall(ish) girls - I'm 6ft 0in so girls about my height (or a little shorter 'cos they always wear heels!) I like someone at eye level!

    Personality - I hate self-destructive and insecure women - oh how many times do I have to hear 'does my bum look big in this', etc. followed by 'your only saying that to make me feel better' - grrrr. How annoying. I like 'chirpy' friendly girls who know what they want!

    Hope this helps!

    Paul.
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