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Is there a term for this
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I don't know what you call this so maybe you can tell me what this is called and also if anyone here does it.
Basically what do you call penetration without all the rubbing or thrusting to try for an orgasm?
Like if a guy just wants to be inside of a girl without trying to get off on it but because he (and she) just likes the closeness of it all?
What's that called? .. And does anyone here do it?
And to answer my own question if I had a steady Girlfriend I'd quite like to make use of my frequent erections without always going for orgasm, just like a really, really close hug ..;)
Basically what do you call penetration without all the rubbing or thrusting to try for an orgasm?
Like if a guy just wants to be inside of a girl without trying to get off on it but because he (and she) just likes the closeness of it all?
What's that called? .. And does anyone here do it?
And to answer my own question if I had a steady Girlfriend I'd quite like to make use of my frequent erections without always going for orgasm, just like a really, really close hug ..;)
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As a woman does it not feel good to have a man inside of you without doing anything else? Just feeling the warmth and fullness?
yeh its nice, but im soon going to want some moving going on. i cant imagine being able to fight the urge to have some thrusting
What I'm thinking of is a bit like the closeness of spooning for example - and maybe just being really close but without the need to bang away at each other.
Useful for example when you're both in bed together and also watch TV ..lol
Like the way for example you can be laying in bed together watching the box and simply cup the girl's breasts and stroke them gently with your thumb just cos it feels nice, not cos you're trying to get off on each other?
or the way you can stroke each other's hair just cos it feels nice. Can you not be inside of a girl just because it feels nice, not because you both want that orgasm?
I mean I can easily have 4 or 5 erections a day that if I'm in the right frame of mind last 20 or 30 minutes without physical stimulation, without feeling the need to orgasm, so thought it would be handy if I had a steady girlfriend to be able to put them to good use from time to time .. but I really don't think I'd fancy full on sex 5 times a day.
Thats the only time i can really think of.
I haven't a clue what you'd call it, though.
Yeah I think that's kinda what I'm after :chin:
Which would normally require a lil action......so.....your already doing something.....
Sounds odd to me, cuddling is a non penetrating activity i think.
Well supposed to describe two spoons in a drawer, i.e. tells people what way around you both are.
.. Not sure on the wetness question, maye the ladies can help answer that one..
how the heck are you going to stay hard? A woman will hardly feel a flaccid penis.
I don't think there is a term for this, but if you are quick you can coin one, put it in some sex or urban dictionary and get 5 internet-cool points.
Tiredness?