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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Ive been goin out wit my boyf, for a month, but we have been best friends for a year, over that time i hav been gradually ffallin in love with him, he has told me in the past though that he has never been in love, so obviously i cant tell him how strong my feelins really are, but am i wot shud i do? stay wit him and hide my feelins or tell him?
Help!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    U have only been seeing him 4 a month so I think u should play it cool 4 a bit till u get 2 know him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree with Trinity, unless u were absoulutely sure he felt the same way as u...
    from experience...its best if u just keep ur friendship instead of puttin in risk not havin him at all..i think
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea I agree, wait a little longer so that your r/ship has time to grow then tell him exactly how you feel. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree to wait before you tell him you love him, but one other point...

    Just because he's never been in love before doesn't mean he doesn't (or wont) love you. There's always a first time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    make sur u have fallin in love and its just not that you fancy him a lot.If you do decide you are in love-tell him because its unfair to you if you're seeing someone who doesn't love you in return or is not serious enough about you as you are them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think you should deffinately have a think if it is love or just a major crush and if it is love tell him,iwas in the same position as you and i told my boyfriend.he looked at me 4 abit, then said god ive been dying to tell you the same and ive never loved anyone.Just see what his reaction is and have a good old chat about it all.It will all turn out fine.
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