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What do men really want?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I know that all guys are different but what qualities in a woman do men generally find attractive? Is it a woman's figure, her interests, the ability to make a guy laugh?
Come on guys let us know what it is!

P.S. thanks to those who replied to my other message it really helped.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if u can't make me laugh, and ur really thick dont bother.

    In fact dont bother cos I gotta g/f <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Hurry up and wait
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd say looks are usually a starting point, after all most people get noticed on lustful grounds first... the its probably down to personality (how you get on with the person, if you click and stuff)

    dunno.. its a difficult one that, some relationships develop from an original friendship and these are usually personality based.. hope that helps...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If she's got the best figure/looks in the world but she's as thick as 2 short uns, then it really aint worth the effort.....

    Who's name does God use in vain?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    guys want sex. thats it.

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    guys want sex. thats it.


    o jeez. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    besides sex, i find intelligence, a good sense of humor and and a fair amount of cynicism and sarcasm incredibly attractive.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    guys want sex. thats it.


    not always the case. i mean thats part of a relationship at some point, guys think.. i mean if it were me going into a relationship and the guy said look no sex or sexual acts, ID be well pissed off and i dont think i could be in a totally sex free relationship.

    i mean if guys just wanted sex, theyd be with whoever's the best looking person and that isnt always true, i mean yeah it might be true for some immature guys, but those looking for a relationship are looking for different things, like a personality they get on well with! i mean there've been guys replying to this and they didnt just say sex.

    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    i mean there've been guys replying to this and they didnt just say sex.


    on behalf of the honorable male population here, i thank you gfm. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    on behalf of the honorable male population here, i thank you gfm. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    np <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;



    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    o jeez. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    besides sex, i find intelligence, a good sense of humor and and a fair amount of cynicism and sarcasm incredibly attractive.

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; explains why you're with me..
    and AHA, so you ADMIT YOU LIKE SEX!! omg, i'm gonna hafta sit down. i never would've thought!

    honey help me out of this mess..i'm a stranger to myself..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah well, i ain't exactly a priest here SLC.

    it's just not the ONLY reason i'm with you. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    guys want sex. thats it.


    Hey, Emma! Thats not very nice is it!
    I dont just want sex, its nice, and id be dissapointed without it and erm, what was my original point again?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    yeah well, i ain't exactly a priest here SLC.
    B]

    priests are very dirty men in my experience!

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wow that caused an uproar didn't it? lol

    erm yah.

    well most guys then <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;



    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    priests are very dirty men in my experience!


    sit down and tell us your experience david.
    oh, do!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    i find intelligence, a good sense of humor and and a fair amount of cynicism and sarcasm incredibly attractive.

    Add a nice arse, short dark hair and Micheal Owen's eyes and you've just decribed my ideal man!

    I am not Jesus, though I have the same initals.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jeffrey:
    Add a nice arse, short dark hair and Micheal Owen's eyes and you've just decribed my ideal man!


    i don't know what michael owen's eyes look like, but sounds like if i were looking for my ideal man, this guy would be it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    luckily i found all that, including the nice arse, in susie. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    well, except for the hair... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    i don't know what michael owen's eyes look like

    I'm sure Suzie will e-mail a picture of him or something. He's just got the nicest eyes in the world, his arse ain't bad either cum to think of it! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    I am not Jesus, though I have the same initals.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    i don't know what michael owen's eyes look like, but sounds like if i were looking for my ideal man, this guy would be it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    luckily i found all that, including the nice arse, in susie. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    well, except for the hair... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;


    my arse is um.. hideous. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    im off to find the lovely micheal's even lovelier eyes for ya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    and i mean that literally MUAHAHA
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