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Selfishness

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Sometimes i am soooooo selfish it is unbelieveable. My mum works 11hrs a day just to keep us in this house and give us food etc, because its hard for her since they got divorced. and well she doesn't have much time to herself. When she gets in, she usually just crashes on the settee or goes out with her m8s. and i don't know i feel kind of selfish that i want more from a family than a mum that i see for about 1hour in the evening if im lucky. and i know she cant give me more time but i still feel bad and lonely and selfish <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

All my m8s have such close relationships with their parents, and i just envy them and the closeness they have with them. just things like they go round sainsburys together makes me jealous and its weird.

And my dad, well thats a whole other story, i aint seen him since january. we don't get on. Got to see him tommorow tho, oh what a barrel of laffs that shoud be <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    {{{{{{{{{Drifter}}}}}}}}}}}
    I know it's unusual but I don't know what words to say, but I'm thinking of you and hope all goes well tomorrow with the family, I'll be thinking of you <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    Take care
    Luv
    Al xx

    ~ If you can see the beauty of whatyou aspire to, it doesn't matter if you achieve it all. Simply to aspire is no mean achievement ~
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey it's not selfish of u to want to spent time with your mom .
    my mom wants to spent every living min with me and it makes me crazy. I think you should try tho to spend so time with her even if its just watching tv with her on the settee, and try to talk ask her about her day,and soon she will ask about yours. even if it is just an hour make it count


    I'm like a bird I'll only fly away. I don't know where my home is, I don't know where my soul is.
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