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lust or love?!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
ok.....right....well my boyfriend finished wiv me bout 2months ago.But the fing is i can neva seem 2 stop finkin bout him!! Every time i c him...i fink "God i love u !" I do stil love him...but the fing is...he doesnt want nefing more 2 do wiv me.He just wants 2 b friends! Ok...i can deal wiv it....but i'd like more!! I stil love him from the 1st time we went out!! Am i just lustin over him cos i know i cant ave him?!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wots wiv all de abrefiasians like lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; ??

    i'd say just go out wif your m8s and have a laugh, thats what i did and i met a girl last wednesday, total babe (god knows what she sees in me but hey who cares <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">!). Havent thought about my ex in a 'missing her' type way since, just this new girl, although i'm gonna keep going out wif my m8s as i realised what i'm missing.

    just go out and have fun !!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Only you can know if it's lust or love & only time will tell. Sounds to me like you need a complete break from the guy, to give yourself a chance to move on.
    Anyway, once upon a time, on this very site, someone posted -

    what's the difference between like, love or lust?
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    spit, swallow or gargle

    j9
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    we all miss your ex's to a certain extent. unless it ended up in a really really bad way. after some time, u realise u be better off without him and move on. have fun with ur life and ur mates. and of course, never stop flirting!! LOL don't be sorry it ended, be happy it happened.

    i reckon that lust will only fade in time. and love grows stronger in time. don't quote me as i don't know. it's only my opinion. leave urself some time to figure it out. just concentrate on ur life and ur mates. maybe u will realise that u still love him...or maybe u realise it was only lust afterall.
    children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya People!

    Fanx 4 the advice that a couple of have given me so far.......
    If ne1 has nemore advice they can offer me, plz tell me!
    Thanx for the help!
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