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Am I ready for this ??
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I dont mean to sound like i'm never satsifed with ne thing but this things been buggin me.
I been with my girl for about a week now, still getting to know her I suppose. everythings been goin fine in the relationship its just me the problem seems to b with.
I work with her, and we see each other quite a bit, the thing is she has said some really really nice things about me. which i am sooo not used to hearing.
i just worry about whats gonna happen when this relationship ends. am i gonna b the same emotional wreck that i was before i was with her ??
Probably.
ne advice/help would b kool.
I been with my girl for about a week now, still getting to know her I suppose. everythings been goin fine in the relationship its just me the problem seems to b with.
I work with her, and we see each other quite a bit, the thing is she has said some really really nice things about me. which i am sooo not used to hearing.
i just worry about whats gonna happen when this relationship ends. am i gonna b the same emotional wreck that i was before i was with her ??
Probably.
ne advice/help would b kool.
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yes, it's inevitable
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
I understand what you mean about taking compliments, sometimes it's really uncomfortable isn't it. Sometimes you just have to smile & say thank you <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Try not to be negative, why assume that the relation is going to end? You never know.
If the relationship does come to an end you may even find that it's your decision! Enjoy it for now and try not to allow your insecurities to destroy it.
It's good to hear that it's working out <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
j9
Luk
I think it's because I'm clumsy
I try not to talk to loud
I think it's because I'm crazy
I try not to act to proud
i think this is due to the fact that i was/have been bullied quite badly. but we have 2 try not 2 think like this, i mean the person giving the compliments dont have 2 they could just keep quiet.
like every1 else said just try and focus on how good the relationship is and not that it MAY come 2 an end. when i forst got with jamie (my bf of 13 months!) i was always thinking in my head "what will i do if he leaves me" but then i became really close to him and relised that he wasnt just going to walk out on me 4 nothing. i think all my insecuritys were becos of the fact basically i had been tret like shit by lads in the past.
just try and concentrate on all the nice things in the relationship and have a good time!
luv jo-lizzie
Yep thats what i think. Added to the fact that I'm maybe leavin to go to uni in autumn, i am gonna have a think about finishin it before i get too involved.
Have you thought she may feel just as insecure? it's possible.. talk to her!
If you do split up, you are bound to feel bad, but you can at least take pleasure in knowing that you enjoyed the time you had together.
And if you don't split up, then you would have spent ages worrying instead of enjoying it!!
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I hate people being really nice 2 me, it sounds stupid, but it irit8s me!
I think when ppl say these things, that they r lying bcuz I dont think i am a nice person and i hate it wen ppl lie.
That really doesnt help at all dus it??
Sorry
i have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 months now, 2 month anniversary today if u r interested. and i cant imagine splitting up from her. and im falling in love with her, and i just love it when im around her. it makes me so much more happy that there is someone there caring about me, so if u feel like that dont be scared of when it will end, it only depresses u, make it work and go with the punches!